7 kids. wut do you guys think of that? i know its a lot, but i want a big family and there arent alot of larger families anymore. most families have 2 or 3 kids. i love kids. ive had the number picked out for a few years now and yes i know how much work it will be. i have 5 nieces and nephews ranging from 6 months to 5 years old. but anyway, wut do you all think?
2007-07-20 18:44:12 · 11 answers · asked by Raven S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as you can support them without help from other people or the government, go for it. Make sure to marry someone who wants a large family and has a good job with health insurance.
2007-07-20 18:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's nothing wrong with having a big family. However, there are a LOT of things to consider. You need to marry the right guy too (would you imagine, seven children, in a divorce!?). You don't want to bring lives into this world that cannot be properly cared for. How will you support these children? How will you divide attention? One of my parents is one of seven, and there are a lot of issues. The oldest and youngest got all of the attention, the middle children were neglected. It's wonderful that you want so many children. It's a great dream. But dont pursue it just because you want it, consider other aspects. This dream isn't just about you, its also about your future children.
2007-07-20 18:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kemps K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling the number might change after you have a few :-) You'll know for sure then! I love kids too, and can't wait to be a father. But I'm not financially stable enough to support a family, which is something you have to consider even with 1 child. Despite your goals and how much you want them to come true, don't rush them before you're ready!
2007-07-20 18:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by Antonio Banderas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find a man that wants the same thing and go for it if you want. Make sure you can support that many kids though as well being financially and emotionally.
2007-07-20 18:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by souplane21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to go to college and get a Masters degree so you can get a job, meet a guy who has a degree and a good job, so you can afford to have all those kids.
It's not good to plan for kids that you are going to raise on goodwill clothes and tuna fish all their lives.
2007-07-20 18:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you have a good source of income and plan to stay home with them or else daycare will cost an arm and a leg.
I think that is great.
2007-07-20 18:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by El Moco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is very nice that you want to have that many kids. But before you start popping them out, make sure you have the money and place to raise them.
2007-07-20 18:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by mamaB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow ! a pretty good question. Its all upto Yurs. If U can manage with, then its ur choice. I wish U all the best as U wish... I too love kids...
2007-07-20 19:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by RK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide that you truely want a nice big family than go for it!
2007-07-20 18:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if that is what you want then go for it. Have as many as you are blessed with hunni
2007-07-20 18:47:04 · answer #10 · answered by atlantaluxe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋