Question for Indians: What all are you supposed to check for during marriage?

Question

The ones I know of are:
- Kulas: I heard that if the boy and the girl belong to the same Kula, then you should not consider that match
- Horoscopes

Still what else are we supposed to check.

I heard somewhere that you are also supposed to look at the blood groups. What are we supposed to check regarding blood groups? Should they be the same or different?

( Of course, I know that some of them are optional and depend on personal judgement but feel free to mention anything that you can think of. )

South Indian
in particular Andhra...

Answer 1

What all I can tell you about a valid Hindu marriage any where in India is that the conditions provide under section 5 of the Hindu Marriage Act,1955 have to be fulfilled which are Condition for a Hindu Marriage.- A marriage may be solemnized between any two Hindus, if the following conditions are fulfilled, namely:
(i) neither party has a spouse living at the time of the marriage;
(ii) at the time of the marriage, neither party,-
(a) is incapable of giving a valid consent of it in consequence of unsoundness of mind; or
(b) though capable of giving a valid consent has been suffering from mental disorder of such a kind or to such an extent as to be unfit for marriage and the procreation of children; or
(c) has been subject to recurrent attacks of insanity or epilepsy;
(iii) the bridegroom has completed the age of twenty one years and the bride the age of eighteen years at the time of the marriage;
(iv) the parties are not within the degrees of prohibited relationship unless the custom or usage governing each of them permits of a marriage between the two;
(v) the parties are not sapindas of each other, unless the custom or usage governing each of them permits of a marriage between the two;
Now here what it means by degree of prhibition section 3(g) provides two persons are said to be within the "degrees of prohibited relationship"-
(I) if one is a lineal ascendant of the other; or
(ii) if one was the wife or husband of a lineal ascendant or descendant of the other; or
(iii)if one was the wife of the brother or of the father's or mother's brother or of the grandfather's or grandmother's brother or the other; or
(iv)if the two are brother and sister, uncle and niece, aunt and nephew, or children of brother and sister or of two brothers or of two sisters.
What does Sapinda relationship means is provided in section 3(f)(i)"Sapinda relationship" with reference to any person extends as far as the third generation(inclusive) in the line of ascent through the mother, and the fifth (inclusive) in the line of ascent through the father, the line being traced upwards in each case from the person concerned, who is to be counted as the first generation;
(ii) two persons are said to be "sapinda" of each other if one is a lineal ascendant of the other within the limits of sapinda relationship, or if they have a common lineal ascendant who is within the limits of sapinda relationship with reference to each of them;
Explanation.- for the purposes of clauses (f) and (g) relationship includes-
(I) relationship by half or uterine blood as well as by full blood;
(ii) illegitimate blood relationship as well as legitimate;
(iii) relationship by adoption as well as by blood; and all terms of relationship in those clauses shall be construed accordingly.
So what all one should check during marriage between two Hindu Indians are these which I have given here nothing else, rest what a Hindu Priest or Astrologer tells some one things relating to these condition is okay but other then these have no legal value. As far Kulas or Gotras etc are concerned then these should be checked from the list of prohibited relationship or Sapinda relationship basis as mentioned above to confirm the legality. As far blood ABO factor or Rh+ or Rh- factors are concerned nothing do with marriage or future medically if a proper medical guidance is taken for Rh+ & Rh- issue ever arise. Yes definitely one blood test that should be made compulsory is with regards to HIV+ factor in both the parties to the marriage to prevent propagation of dreadful disease like Aides.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

If you are an Indian Man - do not make the mistake of marrying a Indian Girl!! - Your life will be ruined especially south India AP, Karnataka, Tamil Nadu or Kerala don't even think of it. Women in these states are rampantly misusing laws to snare and marry and then destroy these Men and their families by freely misusing the Indian Laws. And no verdicts or judgements from any other courts of the world are considered by Indian Courts. They would get you Red Tagged in the Interpol - under violation Women Rights and falsely charging you with charges on Dowery Harassment and Domestic Violence and Marital Rapes - and they do not need any proof its just word of mouth!!

Marry a Non Indian Girl or do not get married at all!!!

Answer 4

India is a land of diverse culture and religion. Every region of the country has its own unique way of celebrating their marriage. Be it east, west, north and south all the four regions have its own wedding customs and rituals. Marriages in India are not just coming together of two individuals and exchange of vows and rings, but it marks the bonding of two souls, two families, their culture and their communities. Indian wedding is not an affair of few hours but it is a matter of several eventful days. All the family members and friends get together for the celebration.

It is said that marriages are made in heaven but celebrated in country like India. The marriage rituals and customs unfold different stories behind it. Condensed over centuries of cultural admixture, Indian weddings showcase the rich culture and tradition of India. The practices of Indian wedding are different according to the particular region. There are various rituals with which you can associate an Indian wedding. The wedding celebration is divided into three parts pre wedding, main day and post wedding. The pre wedding rituals vary according to the region. But the ceremony of mehendi is prevalent more or less in every caste and region. The ceremony of mehendi is celebrated mostly at bride's place where female friends and relatives of the bride gather to put henna on bride's feet and hand. Among the other rituals garland ceremony is the most popular rituals, which is celebrated more or less in every part of the country. On this occasion the bride and the groom garland each other as a sign of mutual acceptance. On the main wedding day a wedding altar or mandapa is built on the wedding venue within which the marriage is conducted. The rituals, which were performed on that day is totally based on the regional customs and traditions. The ritual of putting sindoor or vermilion powder in the parting of the bride's hair by the groom is the ritual followed mostly in the northern and eastern part of the country. Rituals like kanyadaan, vidaii, tying of mangal sutra around the bride's neck, saptapadi (seven steps), in which the couple moves seven times together around the fire exchanging the wedding vows, here fire acts as a witness of their marriage. These are some of the common rituals practiced in all the castes.

The wedding rituals were initially simple and easy to follow but nowadays it has become more complicated due to unnecessary customs like dowry.

The custom of dowry is mostly prevalent in the marriages in villages. In educated and high society families dowry system is not seen so much. But whatever may be the rituals and customs the actual essence behind all wedding celebration is the union of two souls, two families and two communities. And that makes Indian wedding an unique celebration of culture and tradition

Answer 5

first thing u check is whether he loves u or not .. as without love, marriages dont last.. second thing u see if he has aids or hiv as u shdnt trust ne one.. if all this is clear then u go for character .. n nature and then the horroscope . I have seen peoples horroscope matches though 100%.. but till marriages dont last ..

Answer 6

Another thing, love and hate are very close together. No one well ever say this is true but if a man or woman shows hate and yells. This means that the other still feels love. Honestly that is the truth.

Answer 7

in time marriages first parents compare the horoscopes of bride & groom. According to me girls need to check that wheather the boy really love his wife after his marriage.Because beauty doesn't live with us permanently but inner beauty helpus to live the life happily

Answer 8

well parents they tlk about kul, horoscope things i dont believe. but scientifically i strongly bel;eive spouse shud have diff blood group.which may give birth to a handicape child.
in my family we dont believe in color but yes spouse shud look perfect and shud know lil bit of household work cook, wash clean kind of . i dont care . i dont mind washing clothes for my wife or clean house. only thing i dont like is irroning clothes and i cant cook but want to learn how 2 cook.i wan2b supportive and not being mean and wife shud not be slave shud b treated as princess.

Answer 9

first to check is to see whether the person has bone, then flesh, then blood. with this half the person is made. rest you check after marriage to make him/her full person!

Answer 10

You're supposed to check to see if you love eachother