2007-07-20 16:22:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Absolutely and that is not an easy place to be. It's hard enough to say I love you, for the first time. The fear of the unknown and rejection is pretty strong!
I do understand.
2007-07-20 16:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
the phobia of rejection is possibly between the best-ever worst fears interior the worldwide. It makes you sense risky, undesirable, and prefer lesser of a individual in case you dont understand a thank you to handle it, although, its significant in existence to set targets and flow after the flaws which will make you satisfied. the phobia of rejection could in no way provide up you from attempting for happiness. Now in this occasion you in addition to could could rigidity approximately dropping a chum...This thoroughly complicates ingredient for you. your individuals are possibly the extremely some maximum serious human beings on your existence different than for you prompt kinfolk, SO noone needs to shrink to rubble a friendship. you will could "fish" somewhat and notice how they take the bites. there are a number of stuff to think of roughly that help verify in the event that they could be "involved" in relationship you. a million. once you're putting out at the same time.. is there ever random actual touch. extra then a hug or something. purely random touch. Touching your hand or patting your leg? this may well be an indication that they do no longer seem to be "fed up" 2. Do you carry out on my own on a typical foundation? and what varieties of issues do you adult adult males do? 3. Do you communicate on the telephone on a typical foundation? shop all of those issues in ideas because of fact probability is that in the event that they are interested in relationship or liking you, then all 3 of those would be utilized. those will additionally persist with with associates often, yet so some distance as a dating, those issues are a could interior the 1st ranges and definately recommend that there could desire to be interest. and if all else fails, purely ask in the event that they could freak out in the event that they found out you enjoyed them. being a chum they're going to possibly be honest and not carry it against you as long as you dont act opposite from their answer.
2016-11-10 00:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many many times, but then, I'm a lover...I fall in and out of love several times a day.
Come on now, it's true...you see a beautiful person walking down the street....you momentarily fall in love and then you jump on back to reality and think...naw....it wouldn't work.
The reality is this, when you say "I love you" you create expectations, either from your end or they, from their end.
No matter which end is not having expectations met, someone is going to go home unhappy.
Rarely do two people find enough in one another that makes that sort of magic for more than an instant....poof ...it's gone.
When you have a good friend and a lover, that is magic...pure magic.
2007-07-20 16:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by ricrossfireclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I know exactly what you mean. It's even worse when you KNOW what the exact results would be, especially m one friend whom I still love. She knows I like her and possibly knows I love her but I didn't want to say it because I was afraid I would lose even our friendship, and well, she's in Texas now due to Fam probs. Now I wonder if I should have told her.
2007-07-20 17:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Alex M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and when I finally did work up the nerve, the results were what I had feared.
2007-07-20 16:25:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that was because the boy I was only wanted a girlfriend to hold hands with and all that crap. I was afraid that if I told him I loved him he'd say something like "we're not supposed to do that Angi..".
Well... i guess he probably wouldn't since he said it himself at around this time last year lol! But i know he would have if we were still together at this time.
2007-07-20 16:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-07-20 16:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by fordperfect5 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't like holding back my feelings, and I don't fear the outcome. I always fear that I won't have the opportunity to say it again.
2007-07-20 16:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes...if you say it and he doesn't say it back, thats pretty akward........and if you say it too soon and he breaks up with you right there because he doesn't , that sucks.......but never hesitsate for too long.....you tend to regret things you were too afraid to do more than what you did do and made a donkey out of yourself doing.......
2007-07-20 16:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-07-20 16:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋