I'm a 15 year old guy in high school and I'll go into the bathroom to pee and everything, but for some reason, I am scared to go #2. The reason is, Lots of people come into the bathroom ALL the time, and its embarassing having everyone hear your business and smell it. Im scared to go #2 in the bathroom because I want my privacy but i can never get it! And sometimes, I just can't wait until after school because when you gotta go, you gotta go! Any suggestions?
2007-07-20 16:12:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
It may be uncomfortable, but if you need to go then please go. Don't hold your bladder (doing so will cause damage in the long term), ignore the thoughts that may cause hesitation, and be predetermined to go. You should just go because you need to relieve yourself and your bladder.
2007-07-20 16:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is funny. I never used the bathrooms when I was in K12 because that was where most of the criminals and jerks seemed to hang out. I just held it all those years.
When I got to the college dorms; one guy I knew was rather proud of his creations. He would lay these turds that were like 2 feet long and not flush them. Just leave them for everyone to admire. It got to be a problem because the maid refused to clean the bathroom anymore. We actually had a meeting over the monster turds.
But you just gotta get used to it. Public restrooms are the future when you go to college, work, camping, etc. That is just life.
2007-07-24 20:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you aren't the only person who feels this way. My husband refuses to do #2 anywhere but home, and I hate doing it in public restrooms with others around. I usually wait until someone flushes before I "doo" anything. That way, they don't hear it, and I feel less embarrassed. And there are many times when I'll wait on the pot until everyone leaves the bathroom before I do anything, or before I get out of the stall.
2007-07-20 23:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by DH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go during class. Ya, you may get a tardy or whatever you guys get but if you gotta go. I just now started peeing at school and I'm 15. I got the same problem. It's modesty.
2007-07-21 00:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Kaleb B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but a lot of people are like that, I am, I title it "private pooper" I gave it a name cause I tease some of my friends who are like that, full well knowing that I am to. maybe go during a class. Flush while you are going. I don't know, cause at the age of 33 I run into that also. Not wantoing to go at work. Sometimes I won't go and then from avoiding it at work, then I can't go. It sucks being a private pooper, sorry no better advice for ya, but more people than you realize are the same way. Cheers
2007-07-20 23:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I just graduated from high school, and i know how you feel. If you really need to go. Try to find a washroom that is not popular. I usually went during class, or half way through my lunch, i just sneeked up stairs and did my business. Some one walks in, just think that they go poo too. and if your afraid of smelling up the washroom, just do a courtesy flush ( flush half way through your poo) Have fun in high school, i really did, make sure you get involved in school (sports, ect..) you will be very bored if you dont
2007-07-20 23:23:22 · answer #6 · answered by Matts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just suck it up. That's life, and at 15 you should be passed the point where you have these silly fears. You are almost a man!
Defecating is a natural human function; everyone does it. Smells and noises are part of the process, which is one of the reasons we have bathrooms to do it in.
2007-07-21 00:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your just shy... so loosen up, who cares what other think..it none of their business it's yours. Go for a numer 2 a few times at school and you will be used to it and want to go when needed.
Just think your not the only one making noise and make smells when your doing you business in the washroom.
2007-07-20 23:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your concern, but realize that you are human and everyone has to do it sometime. I'd be surprised if u came out of the stall and someone gave u a hard time for going (#2)
2007-07-20 23:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. J 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Swallow your pride and just drop the kids off at the pool (poop). Who cares if you are using the toilet for what it is made for, if you got to go then go. You mention it yourself at the end of your question. Take your own advise dude- sit proud on the throne!
2007-07-20 23:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by goldielocke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋