I'm a gril and I'm trying to deal with trying to tell my friends about the fact that I'm bi-sexual. Not just that but, I don't feel right about being this way. I mean, I'm fine with liking girls and all but it only bothers me when it comes to my family. They just wont understand me
I've told my best friend and she understands, but doesn't know what to do when I ask her questions like telling other people, like my other friends, not strangers, that's just weird. I've also told another friend I have, thats a guy, and he was no help since his reaction was, "omg, that is so hot, holy crap, when you get a girlfriend, omg, let me watch." yhea, he's not to helpful. For the past few months I've been fighting a constant idea in my head. i'm in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do about it, whenever I get close to her or hang out with her, I have ideas about kissing her or something, I just don't know what to do about it since, I definitlly can't talk to her about it, omg, hell
2007-07-20 15:39:15 · 11 answers · asked by Kelsey 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Two questions. First, you don't have to tell everyone unless you need to. Second, if you have a crush on your best friend, then tell her you're bi and that you're interested in her and go from there. Either she's responsive or she's not and if not, move on.
2007-07-20 15:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by gone fishing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely your friends already know you are bi-. As for telling your family tell your mom first. Moms are more understanding then Dads, just me I know. I came out to my mom in 1990, my Dad didnt know till I broke up with my girlfriend.
2007-07-20 16:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by liz h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole thing of family is especially hard . Many of us struggle w that scene . Try and meet some other gay people , and you wont feel as isolated . Eventually you will adjust . Its harder at first .
2007-07-20 16:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just tell your friends if they are truly your friends they will understand and have no problem with it. your just goign to stress your self out if you keep thinking about this. Just take a breath and just tell one friend at a time and see where it goes... and you will figure out who your true friend are. I hope that helps
2007-07-20 15:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
first Corinthians chapter 13 some bibles use the word charity others use love , and its all in the translation but in here their more or less one in the same, just remember true love doesn't demand it's own way , love her , make her happy even if that not with you, be the best love she ever had even if she doesn't know you were,,,,
2007-07-20 15:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by darkcloud 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok...first of all, I don't believe you need to discuss your sexual preferances with your friends...it is your business, or for that matter with anyone!...I know this the information age but really...it's between you & your partner (male or female) who you sleep with.
2007-07-20 16:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same exact situation with my best friend, and man i know its so hard to deal with
if u want to talk more about it feel free to email me
and idk how to help you come out to people, just take it slow and dont feel as if you need to tell everyone rite now, just tell people when your comfortable with doing tht
2007-07-20 16:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by ryansamuel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kelsey:
I ask that if you wish to talk one on one and not in this nut house, please email me thru yahoo.
I'm much much older, yahoo keeps you safe, and the conversation will be real.
Jud B
2007-07-20 16:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by Judd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go out and meet more people to get your mind off her.
2007-07-20 15:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by AngelaT 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You seem really confused about this. I would suggest reading 1 Corinthians 6:9-20 in either the NIV Bible or the Current English Version. It will help you understand the truth.
2007-07-20 15:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by LeeBoy 2 · 0⤊ 8⤋