I'm 13 and when I masterbate my clit I get no pleasure from it. I've heard that it can get numb by horseback riding or from riding a bike. Well I've been horseback riding for 6 years but I quit now. I do the biking machince at the YMCA and the seats are really uncomfortable there. When I get off my vagina is numb because the seat is so hard! So I guess that's why I don't get any pleasure from it. But will I ever? Will my clit stay numb forever? I try stroking and rubbing it but all it does is feel ticklish which isn't that great. That's the number one stop for an organism and I don't want to block it out. What should I do?
2007-07-20 13:58:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
I'd try new techniques to pleasure yourself. Instead of rubbing your clitoris direclt, first play around the area for a bit. Touch other parts of your body where it feels good, such as breasts or your neck, etc. After you've built pleasure then move to your clitoris area. You can storke the skin around it and "tease" it a bit. When you've built enough to get off rub it directly or in a way that you ge to orgasm.
2007-07-20 14:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by cruisechloe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wont stay numb forever. When i was your age I was the same, maybe you're not used to it yet. If you keep trying then you might feel pleasure out of it. The ticklish feeling is probably because its new to your body and it may SEEM uncomfortable because you're not used to it. Keep trying but dont force yourself if you don't want to only when you're aroused or something.....at night read a book that may have an erotic scene or soemthing to get yourself in to then try. With time you'll get used to it.
2007-07-20 21:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if I should really be answering this, but consider these things. The female clitoris is a carry-over from maleness because it is, in essence, a penis that was not developed because your body became female instead of male during development.. it's kind of like why men still have nipples, even though they are useless to a male, they have them due to differential development.
You're still very young, and being sexually active is something not to be rushed into. Allow it time, and sexual arousal will occur when the time is right, don't try to force it. I hope this helps. Take care of yourself.
Craig
2007-07-20 21:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by Craig A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are probably too young. i never began masturbating until i was 14 and a half and i never hit the big o until a whiles after i had turned 15. masturbation is just a form of release for me (i jsut dont do it on a whim or becasue im bored) and the only way i do get any pleasure is if i need it, which flunctuates from week to week. when i first began all i felt was ticklish but in time things came together.
it is highly unlikely that the cl** it is numb forever. plus dont jsut try the cl** try the g-spot also. rubbing the cl** alone never works...just relax, find your own groove and in time things will come together.
2007-07-20 21:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, it's called the "thirty minute massage." That means you have to "play" with "it" for at least thirty minutes after which something should "happen!" A feeling like you have never felt before! Have fun! =<)
2007-07-20 21:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes women dont climax from that you may only orgasm from youyr G-spot wich is located inside your vagina about 2 in to the back. So try fingering yourself.
good luck!!!
2007-07-20 21:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by I am Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying. It is not a priority. There can be nothing worng with you. You probably realize that it is not time and when it is, things will be just right. It always is, so be patient and wait.
2007-07-20 21:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Firstly, it's orgasm, not organism.
Secondly, some girls just aren't very sensitive.
Thirdly, check out this site: www.clitical.com. It should help some.
2007-07-20 21:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying
2007-07-20 21:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a guy to help you out. Good luck!
2007-07-20 21:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by Argo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋