I live in a third world country.....no place i wanna name but anyway.... lately I've become despondent with everything in life? nothing has its charm anymore, i hate my university the vast majority of 90% of the professors cant teach for ****. i hate the culture here.
whats more troubling is i am becoming more and more uncomfortable with my own skin. i hate the way i look, I've gained a lot of weight, i wanna change my casual wardrobe to more alternative rock style or emo, but i dunno how...
i guess i want a complete change appearance apparel location country i dunno...
if anyway can make sense of my question and gimme some good advice i would appreciate i am quite close to pulling my hair out.
and any smart @ss out there, no need to post any smart comments. and a BIG thank u to everyone whose posting to help!!!
2007-07-20 12:25:42 · 4 answers · asked by wickedpoola 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i'm turning 22 soon and i also work 8 hours every night in addition to going to university for 4 hours 5 days a week.....
2007-07-22 12:33:45 · update #1
.....Like many of us, you'd like to change lots of things in your life. But if you try to change everything at once, you'll fail. What's the one thing you'd like to change more than anything? Start with that. Set a goal. Make a plan. Get help if you need to.
One thing at a time. And one day, your life will be a lot different. Patience, persistence, hard work. You can even change some of your goals along the way. You have it within you to do it.
2007-07-20 12:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Modern medicine knows that the heart-beat in a child is faster than
that of an adult. The pulse rate in a new born baby is about 140
beats per minute. This pulse rate gradually reduces and settles down
to it's stable value of 76 beats per minute after the age of 24
years. Modern psychology knows that adolescents behave with playful
and 'what if' attitude, and adults find the need to fit their
reasoning into the dimensions of real life.
Modern medicine knows that muscular strength peaks
between the ages of 25 and 30. Modern psychologists
treat the period from 35 to 40 years as mid-life crisis
period.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mid_life_crisis
Most of the people may not feel much during this period. However for
those few persons who experience it's full intensity, it will be like
a mini-death. Some psychologists use the terminology 'fluid
intelligence' (flexible thoughts that are not much dependent on
culturally based content) which declines over the period from young
adult-hood to old age, and 'crystallized intelligence' (mastering the
knowledge of culture) which increased well into old age.
2007-07-21 01:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by d_r_siva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I think that you are in clinical depression and need some help from a doctor..you may be overstressed from university right now and that doesnt help.If you want to change your image...just do it...theres plenty of people out there to get visual ideas from..you can check out fashion blogs to make sure you are doing it right too.You just need a break and maybe when you gain some strength you will think more clearly.Finish your education and try to move to another place where you can work and relax...you can do it my love you are young yet and have a long time to go
2007-07-20 12:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by evon stark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want some change, take a vacation, maybe even move to the place if you like it. about your wardrobe - maybe you could find a musicion you like and dress kinda like they do, i dont know, at least i tried answering
2007-07-20 12:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋