why do women think this?

Question

ok, why do when think men know what to say? yes ive seen it many times, women expect men to know what to say and when to say it.if we say the wrong thing you get mad.if we dont say nothing at all you get mad. men cant read your minds.its very annoying.(im not say ALL women but the vast majority of women)

why do women think men know what to say* sorry for the error

Answer 1

This is probably the wrong category for this question, but I'll throw an answer out there anyway.

I've seen many women (note that not all do it) do this and here's why. They have this ideal guy that you're supposed to be. They actually believe that you are this ideal guy, like out of a story book and not victim of human imperfections.

So, every time a guy does something that this ideal guy wouldn't, it puts a dent in their fantasy and they get mad. I think this is also the reason women get caught up with abusive guys or guys who "turn out" to be bad. Well, they were trash in the first place, the women just refused to see it because they were blinded by their dream idea of a guy.

Of course not just any guy can squeeze their way in under this dream idea. The guy will need at least a few of the dream traits/qualities. She'll think that since he has these few, he must have the rest and it's simply not true.

Anyway, this is what I've observed.

Answer 2

Because we think that every man that comes into our life is prince charming , and you're going to sweep us off our feet change our lives and should know what to say and when to say it at all times no matter what and who is around .

I think it depends on person to person .. My ex fiance knew what to say , just never when to say it. It was usually the wrong times , too often [ which hearing something so often kinda makes us wonder if you mean it , if it means anything when you say it to us or if its something you use causually, or if you're covering up something , ARE YOU ?? lol j/k that last one ]

My current boyfriend has all the right opportunities to say all the nice things he has come up with , but just never says them unless he knows I'm mad , then I find it to be the really wrong time , I don't want him telling me I'm super cute when I'm yelling at him for something stupid he did , it just doesn't work like that with me..

Same thing I find with guys , you like your ego stroked too , but some times when I try to pay him a compliment he looks at me like I'm crazy or something, then i ask if I offended him or said something wrong and he rolls his eyes but hey who knows ..

Err is to human right ...

Answer 3

Well I never thought that that's for sure. And I've never done it either... I wouldn't get mad if I guy didn't know what to say. Some girls are like that. But a lot more than you think don't do as you say..

Answer 4

It´s an interesting question, but usually women are involved in emosions, so sometimes we hope you can feel the same as us, and just guess what we like to hear. I agree it´s too complex,
but what human is easy to understand?

Answer 5

I guess because all humans, regardless of gender, have the ability to communicate through language and if you don't use that ability, we know you're either stupid or a lazy jerk.

Answer 6

im not like that. You are probably just meeting the wrong women.

Answer 7

I don't think that. As long as you are truthful and honest you should be ok. (we don't believe you when we ask if we are fat and you say no, so be honest but tactful)

Answer 8

Maybe you are with the wrong woman.......

Answer 9

I don't think that

Answer 10

i think you have it wrong