What do you do when someone you thought was your friend turns on you.?

Question

theres this kid who was one of my good friends we used to have so much fun
then i started feeling depressed and now he constatly calls me emo
and makes fun of me and every thing from him is a constant put down. he every chence he gets he makes fun of me and he always ut s down the music i like but i don't care i'm not changing for anyone i love My chemical romance and i don't care when people likes othere type of music then me.
i just think that if one of your friends is depressed you should help them feel better and not just dessert them or even worse put them down because thier in pain

i've told him to stop it bothers me but he just say " stuf you emo "

Answer 1

You need to tell your friend that. I had the same thing happen to me. Remind your friend of the good times you had together. If you're feeling depressed it doesn't mean you're emo at all!!! I was depressed for a while, and my friends treated me the same way. Even my best friends seemed to not want to be around me. It's not because they thought I was "emo", it was because they had enough problems on their own without having to worry about me. Honestly, it isn't your friends job to make you feel better, and I doubt that he would actually make you feel better if you are clinically depressed. Try talking to someone who's not a friend or family member, someone you can trust. That's how I overcame my depression. About your friend, tell him you're just having a hard time right now but you miss the good times you used to have together. Try to like remind him of one of those times that you guys had a lot of fun, it could turn into another time that you guys will never forget! I hope you feel better, if you need anything, email!!!

p.s. liking my chemical romance does not make you emo and youre right. dont change for ANYBODY.

Answer 2

You're absolutely right. Friends should not put you down they should be there for you when you need them the most. This person does not sound like a friend. You live and learn. The good thing about friends is, unlike family, you can choose who they are! So kick his sorry tail to the curb! I'm sure you'll meet others that share your interests. Good luck and cheer up!

Answer 3

Well, first of all, I'm sorry you're going through this.You should pray for your friend and forgive them, then tell them how much they are hurting them and how much your friendship means to you.Ask them how they would feel if they were feeling like you do and you were putting them down and making fun of them. If that don't help, find new friends that will love and support you.
I hope I'v helped. Good luck.Have a great summer.

Answer 4

I have had that happen to me too

relax be the man

and little by litte seek a new friend and remember=When one person gives in to another all their heart as you are so willing to do, leaving little room for themselves or our creator, they blind themselves to reality. We can get ourselves into a fix-like drugs a person knows its killing them but their feelings overwelm their mind and they go back for another fix, the only way is help and refocus.
Romans 1 teaches not to be ashamed in life and of the gospel, to be thankful and worsih the creator instead of the created.
feeling good about yourself helps you feel good about life and the future.
Truth is, many are willing to give up their future for the relationship of the present no matter the cost. "There is pleasure in sin for a season, but then cometh the judgement." When we believe a lie so we can throw away the truth we get problems
Hebrews 13 in that chapter once you let Jesus into your heart to save you from sin and be your friend "I will never leave thee nor forsake thee."

You got to decide if your worth a true love first from above,

peace in Jesus care and prayer John 3 asked forgiveness of sins and Jesus to come into my heart to be my best friend, amen as promised in Revelation 3:19&20 as He says "I love you and knock on your heart door to come in and deliver, and be your friend when you ask me to.

best wishes and prayin for you, David

Answer 5

for some people that is how they handle it.. crappy i know.. but they have no idea what to do to help and they just get kinda wierd on ya. i had this same situation happen and i just removed myself from it. i tried explaining that their recent turn in behavior doesnt help anything, it makes it worse and they kept on doing it.
for some people its a control thing, not neccessarily over you but its a way to control the situation... if they know nothing else to do people react in very strange ways. i know it sounds weird and totally backwards but maybe your freind just doesnt know how to help.
ask them to stop with the comments, listening is often more important than speaking, and if they dont it may be better for you to seperate yourself from them until you can get some help.

Answer 6

It's obvious he was never a true friend. Don't bother with him any further. You can take away a lesson about being more careful who you consider a good friend. Move on and find other friends.

Answer 7

Maybe you changed without knowing you did or realizing that you undermined your friendship. It is possible that your friend depended on you in ways you do not understand. We are not aware of most of our impact on our world. Also he may be trying to help you in his way to deal with the change. The best thing you can do is to grow, morally and ethically.

Answer 8

Accept the fact that this person is not your friend. Then work on being honest with youself. The easiest person in the whole world for you to fool is yourself.

Answer 9

boxofrain2112 & Rainbow are right. He is not your freind. You can't really help that you are depressed all the time. You should look to people who are more understanding and helpful. Please try to be more happy. Life is too short to be sad all the time. Good luck and be happy.

Answer 10

i think if they're doing that to you the best thing to do is talk to them-tell them that it's hurting you, especially since he's your really good friend. something like that happened to me once and i talked to her about it and she understood. after that things started to get better. if he is your friend he will understand and won't do it anymore.
hope this helps