my life is so messed up....... i''m 22....
i can't stay at home ne more......
my youngest brother is starting to really really hurt me by hitting me really hard for no reason....
my oldest brother is coming over whenever he wants which he isnt supposed to be allowed cause he molested me for 14 yrs...but my parents says its ok now....(not there decision)
i want to move to kentucky to be with my bf and start over ...a new life.....
but my best friend is still in NY and i don't want to leave her...she is only 16 and i LOVE her sooo much and i hate the thought of leaving her........
what do i do......
2007-07-20 11:37:03 · 10 answers · asked by Poosocks 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have a job....
and i 'm sober....
thnx for the help....very helpful....
2007-07-20 11:41:16 · update #1
I have an attractive caring son who just turned 28 who is a responsible man going through a separation though not divorced just yet , if he were I would hook you up with him and send him to get you I'm sure he would be thrilled to have a sweet girl such as yourself and certainly treat you with the respect you deserve . I'll keep you posted or could send a picture and his email address or even have him contact you .
2007-07-20 13:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard decisson but what would be best for you like i know you will miss her but you will make new friends in kentucky and i think that is horrible what your going through. so maybe it would be best to start a new life or could you maybe move somewhere else like in NY that your family couldnt come see you? but if not maybe moving far could be the best thing
goodluck
and im sorry you had to go through that
2007-07-20 18:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by becca j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For your own safety, leave the state. I know it's your BFF, but you can still stay in touch. If I had to leave my best friend for something like that, I would. But I would make it a POINT to visit her very often.
2007-07-20 18:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow just do it, go.
I wouldn't even say good bye to your messed up family.
I want to hurt your brother so bad, and your parents too.
There is no way I'd let anyone live after hurting my sister or kids like that.
2007-07-20 18:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing is get a job and move out. Everything else will be easier. Can't believe you're still at home at 22.
2007-07-20 18:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask her to move with u or make your brothers leave u alone and get a restraining order on your older 1. srry to hear what he did 2 u :(
2007-07-20 18:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
man this is a hard choice would be going with your bf and maybe be able to take her with you so ya thats all i can think of
2007-07-20 18:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rakashininja 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell yer bf to move to New York and you move in with him!
2007-07-20 18:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by chris j 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get sober, then make these choices.
2007-07-20 18:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can Come stay with me......................IM,,,Me
2007-07-20 19:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋