if your boyfriend or girlfriend said that you cant wear socks in your sneakers what would you do?

Question

You love him or her very much, and you dont want to lose the relationship and he says you can not wear socks at all, or he will leave you..

Answer 1

please stop posting this crap about socks and sneakers and not wearing socks. nobody cares. and he is that shallow then say eff him. geez!

Answer 2

Yeah, THAT is major breakup material - forget other women/men, insensitivity etc it's the sneakers with socks that gets them!

SERIOUSLY???!!!

I think your partner is just being immature and trying a very stupid 'storybook' trick that only works for people like Cinderella. They should know that by playing with another's emotions like this they only end up hurting themselves.

Call hisbluff (continue wearing your socks) and see what happens. He'll be back.

(Scientifically, though, wearing shoes without socks makes your feet sweat and leaves bacteria in your shoes which make them smell absolutely foul)

Answer 3

U dont like socks we get it how many times r u gonna ask about not wearing socks in sneakers u asked like a million times already ( =

Answer 4

I'm all for my husband being head of household and letting him have the final say in things that matter. For instance, if he asked me to not wear a shirt because it's too low cut, I would either not wear it or find a way to remedy it, i.e., a shirt underneath, pinning the V, etc. Or, if he asked me not to drive any further than around town, because he's concerned for my and our baby's (with whom I'm seven months pregnant) safety, I would comply. (He's okay with it now, but he has already said he doesn't want me driving the four hours when we move next month and one of his parents will drive the car.) However, if he started on petty things like this, I would get quite concerned. If it were a dating relationship, and he told me I "couldn't" wear something that petty, I would be concerned.

Also, there is a difference between "can not" and asking. My husband will not flat out say, "Don't," or "No," unless it's serious and really matters, like when he flat out told me "Don't carry any boxes." Okay. I'm all for not having to carry anything heavy. (Moving's going to be fun. I won't be doing much.) However, if he said "Don't wear socks," I would question why.

Answer 5

Slap him or her with a sock before putting it on. What kind of mess is that. They are just trying to control you and that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard and you would be dumb to allow that person to make you stop wearing socks.

Answer 6

If that is the case then do what ever you got to do to keep him or you do what ever you want and see if you are worth it for him. It comes both ways. I mean if he's gonna leave you just for some stupid socks because of his feet fetish then maybe he is not worth being with. If he is going to leave you for a bigger issue then maybe its understandable but just for a socks issue then not worth. If something so small can make him leave you then he sees you as nothing that he wants to keep. If you look at it this way, you do what ever you can to keep him, but would he do what ever he can to keep you? No! He is already thinking of leaving you, another word, he dont want you.

Answer 7

There is a big difference between loving someone and being, "in love". Being "in love" is mostly physical attraction and due to chemical things going on in the body.

By itself, it should not be the determining factor in deciding who you want to marry or have a long term relationship with. It always feels bad to end a relationship with someone that we have a strong physical attraction to (are "in love" with), but that is part of the reason for dating.

The reason for dating is not only to have someone to be with, to have affection with, etc.; it is also to experience being with people of the opposite sex who have different kinds of personalities to see who is most compatible with our personality. Also, it is an opportunity to learn and practice relationship skills such as: communication, compromise, problem solving, etc.

Both of these learning areas are necessary to know who would be most compatible to marry and how to stay married. It's not true that just because 2 people are "in love" that all future problems with that person will be solved.

Not only is divorce a terrible thing to experience, children need 2 parents who stay together, to have the best psychological development.

I know that you are talking about a b/f not a husband, but I have tried to explain 1 of the reasons for ending a b/f, g/f relationship that has significant problems and moving on despite what your emotions tell you.

This guy sounds like he has the emotional maturity of a 6 y/o. I don't know how old you are but I bet that your emotional maturity is much higher than that!

I would just tell the guy that he is way out of line for saying that to you and that if that is the way he feels, goodby, it was nice knowing you.

Answer 8

Are you joking?..I would wear socks..my feet..if a relationship fails because I wear socks, then so be it..That's so dumb..I'd probably wear 2 pairs of socks just because I can.

Answer 9

I don't wear socks anyway; therefore I should be fine.

Answer 10

Well if you don't wear socks in your sneakers then you'll get a foot fungus. I'd just start wearing heels.

Answer 11

Your boyfriend but countless blisters? Or no boyfriend but nice comfortable feet? I say your BF has got some WIERD issues. Leave him, cause that is...strange.