They want you to leave.
2007-07-20 12:38:40
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answer #1
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answered by Kelli Anne 2
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You will have a lovely relationship with them again - its just natures way of saying that you need to get a place of your own like so many of the good people here have already said. Its their house so they can set any rules they please and at your age you are a guest. I suspect they have heard a twinkle on the grapevine about what you and your friends get up to and they are worried sick. What you think is perfectly normal behaviour would have them in a state of shock in two seconds! Look on the bright side, if they didn't love you they wouldn't give a hoot where you have been or what you have been doing. No parent wakes up in the morning and plans how they are going to ruin that day for you! How likely is it that you could move out?
2007-07-20 16:59:10
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answered by AUNTY EM 6
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Ok if you cant talk too mum dad do the next best thing and right a letter leavin it where u know it will be found statin how u feel about the way things are, hope this may shock them into realiin they are hurtin u . but if that fails, sorry this may be the time u want to think about movin on and live indepedent of them after all at 22 u are an adult and noone should put up with this attitude good luck
2007-07-20 16:30:42
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answered by diamondjade 6
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That is bizarre. I mean I'm literally having the same problem and guess what I'm the same age as you. I did not think I would meet someone my same age and having a similar problem as I'm going through. I would suggest to move out. I'm thinking about moving out shortly when I come up with the money. Your 22 you should move out and your mom has no right to curse at you. Talk to your parents and tell them how your feeling.
2007-07-20 16:28:20
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answered by brooke992002 2
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At 22 years old, its your business where you go and what you do. I think your parents have yet to relise you are now a grown independent woman. If all else fails, move out. You dont have to answers to your parents anymore. Im 24 and if my parents were asking me what i was doing and going mad and getting in at a late hour (i live with my partner, not my parents), id go mad! I understand that as you are still living under their roof, you should respect their rules but they seriously need to cut the umbilical cord!
2007-07-20 16:25:27
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answered by Anonymous
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You are old enough to be responsible for your own actions. They are just worried about what they see on the news and in papers about young girls. You just need to show them that you are capable of looking after yourself. When i was younger still living at home i was a complete **** to my parents, going out all night sleeping all day never ringing to say where i was. They hated it at first but the more i did it, the easier it became on them to the point where they just expected it. I am not saying you should do the same but you are 22 you need to distance yourself a little.
2007-07-20 16:35:18
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answered by 5200jenniferg 3
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Old story. Its their house their rules ultimately. Just being honest without being emotional about the situation might help you out. Try catching you mom when she needs a shoulder to lean on and tell her you love her. Be there for her and maybe she'll will open up to you about why thinks you are certain things that you aren't. Its amazing how far a little honesty and love can a relationship. If all else fails. . . except your parents for who they are. Flatter them, tell them you want to make them proud and then just be yourself and nothing more. Good parents will always love you no matter irritated they are with the situation. Good Luck!
2007-07-20 16:31:30
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answered by Albert R 1
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dont worry, they are probably just worried about you
there have been a lot of deaths in and around london over the past month or so, and even though you may not live there, they are probably worried that something might happen to you when you are out in a club ro whereever
however, you are a little old for this, so perhaps talk to them and try to reassure them that you are responsible.
Tell your mum that you dont like the names she calls you, and tell her you are old enough to take care of yourself; they dont need to worry
hope this helps :)
2007-07-20 16:25:04
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answered by anon 3
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It's hard to let go.
It's their house and they get to make the rules. If you are going out tell them when you will be back. Leave notes. clean your room. carry your dishes back to the kitchen.
You are 22 and can make your own decisions.
Assuming you have a job, then move out, maybe with a friend.
Sounds like it's time to go.
2007-07-20 16:30:44
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answered by Sophie B 7
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Move out! Living at home in your 20's is a frustrating thing for a parent to deal with. If you could pay your own way they would quick yelling and leave you alone.
2007-07-20 16:23:38
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answered by Rockstar 2
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it's time to move out, either alone or with a friend; you're a woman now, and they know it. Also, name calling and verbal abuse has never deemed to be healthy anyway, and if you'
re being called these things at 22, what will you be called at 23? Don't sit around to wait and see; get a good or decent job, and move out, even if it's just a room somewhere; at least you won't have to deal with non-trust issues and being yelled at like you're inhuman.
2007-07-20 16:30:56
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answered by clean_army_bikerboy 1
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