A few nights ago, I had a dream about an ex-boyfriend that I cared deeply about (and still do). The dream was set in a college-like setting (I'm currently going to college part-time). It was the first day of classes and I was on my way to class when I saw him down the hall (oddly dressed in the same outfit my husband was wearing that day...). When I saw him, I screamed "OMG! What are you doing here?" and ran to hug him. We caught eachother and gave each a mighty and firm hug. I walked with him to his class and said that we need to talk afterwards and he said ok and he would call me. I said ok even though I knew that he wouldn't call me. I ran to my class and felt like I was torn between being happy and disappointed about the meeting. What does this mean? I'm kinda weirded out because my husband and I had some trouble simular to this a while back and I dont know if I might have said something in my sleep about it or not (I'm not prone to talking in my sleep but I've done it before..)
2007-07-20 09:12:10 · 6 answers · asked by Chybabi 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Are you and your husband having problems at the moment? Did your husband do anything that disappointed you or hurt you recently? Are there any qualities about your ex that you wish your husband has? Maybe the dream is telling you that there are some issues in your relationship that you need to thresh out. Maybe subconsciously you wish that your husband would do something that your ex used to do with you (that's why you dreamt that your ex is wearing your husband's clothing).
2007-07-28 06:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by anaknivictoria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 If it's said in your sleep, it doesn't count.
#2 You see the guy, hug him and listened to him lie to you. You knew he was lying, so you let him go, not knowing if you'd ever see him again.
This is not the action of someone still in love with an ex. Hugs, ok, but there was no kissing, no sexing, no running off together. You were glad to see him, but he's out of the picture. And if you said his name in your sleep, well, you're thinking about him. Husband can't patrol your thoughts or your dreams, especially when you can't control them either!
debbie
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2007-07-27 16:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be still ambivalent about who the true love of your life is.
Let it play out on its own. You will eventually settle on a path that you won't continually regret.
I suggest that you don't tell your husband anything about this dream. I see no upside to that move.
2007-07-26 09:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in your dream you are telling you knew that , you knew this,
and you are so sure that your ex is not going to call you back yet you are going after him , he avoids you by saying that he will call you..
you also mix your husband with him by making him wear your husband clothes . so you are bringing two together..
so your inner is giving you signal that your ex is not with you yet you feel that he should be your husband .
You are not accepting your husband as your lover.. and you are not getting your lover as your husband whom you are giving mighty hugs in dreams like wife giving to husband..
why you are torturig yourself and feeling strss and guilt..
you have also to be careful that you are not chattering in sleep.. why lead such a fearfull life .
why you are inviting Psychoanalys into your life ,drugs in your life. and wasting your or your husbands money . does husband not love you. does he ignore you. does he use as a toy for relase of sexual tension..
why do you carry all this in your mind.. keep a watch on your emotions and thoughts.
be in loving relationship with your hubby
involve in some aerobics and heavy breathing exercises. for one hour daily from 24 hours in morning
get your body in shape, be active, enegetic, you will have more shining sking and loving eyes . less time to create sick thoughts.
deep sleep and no dreams to distract you..
also further you do one more exercise.. before you go to sleep and at sleep time, sit for few minutes in meditation, close eyes. feel your breathe , in out in out, at nose point or at belly point..
You should not be distrubed by phone, friends when you are in meditation
you also keep body still, cross leged. unmoving
try to remain undisturbed . but be patient..
go to your breathig, in out, in out
continue for 10-20-30 minutes and reach upto 45 minutes.. thus you will do two exercise one physical and heavy breathing in morinig, one hour
and meditation in night befoe sleep
Friend this is golden moment and golden time for your life , invest for better ment of yor future,the past is gone and so is your Ex. now live with the present boy friend who is your husband.. make him again boy friend..
develop hobby so that you will be more active and mind will be free from idle thinking..
avoid the wasteful TV serials.
use time to study , read, exercise, work sleep ,food, meditate, sleep,
2007-07-27 06:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell your husband about it just in case you do mention it in your sleep. That way there won't be any surprises!
2007-07-20 09:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you may reunite when you go back
2007-07-20 09:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by $trawberry 6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋