I have no idea how many times i have repeated this stuff but here i go again:
15
pregnant
with twins
10 siblings
dad in jail
seduced by the idiot when i was 14 and now he's gone
just found out he has gotten other girls pregnant
people are laughing at me and calling me names
raped by the same guy a week later and it took me days and days to call the cops
i had anorexia a few year ago and now i'm incredibly thin
doctor said my kids' lives are in danger
therefore putting my own in danger
i'm throwing up every half an hour
and i can't get off my fat a ss to do something about anything
yeah sure i have had medical treatment already but i can't stop to think things through
sorry, i just threw up again, i'm back, although you never knew i was gone...
my brothers friends were calling me every bad thing you could possibly think of a few hours ago and now they are trying to hit on me
SERIOUSLY i don't even care what you say just please say something useful!
2007-07-20 08:43:47 · 41 answers · asked by Kaidra 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
incase u r confused, each line is like a new sentence, its like a list. a list of my ******* life.
2007-07-20 08:48:37 · update #1
I just want to start all over and not have sex until I'm married! That way, if i get pregnant nothing like this would happen to me!!!
2007-07-20 08:55:19 · update #2
yes please tell the truth!
2007-07-20 08:56:32 · update #3
hmm, what's you name, ♥..Katie..♥, I said i have 9 siblings because the 10th one was not out, he was in the house. Sorry if that was confusing or misleading but this is the truth.
2007-07-21 06:15:45 · update #4
WOW ur life sucks right now
But no one told you to have sex in the first place, and maybe if you didnt hang out with friends and just stay home things would be much better and its no one fault your skinny eat some more food or go to a doctor, and you wouldnt of got raped if you didnt hang around so much
And if you want me 2 feel sorry for you too bad because there are kids in eithopia having a worse lfe than you
Why am i getting thumbs down she said SPEAK WHAT I THINK AND ITS MY OPINION
2007-07-20 08:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 4 · 10⤊ 6⤋
Awww hun, you're not pathetic. You're very intelligent and I'm sure very beautiful.
There's nothing you could have done to prevent your father from being in jail. And we all make mistakes, it's not your fault that this happened. I hope you're getting support from your Mum, Grandparents, Aunties and Uncles, your school, your friends and Doctors!
Please talk to your doctor about you throwing up all the time though because this can be really bad for your babies, if you are throwing up they aren't getting all the food they need.
Please talk to a counsellor, you're going through so much and you need professional help.
Ignore your brother's friends, go into another room.
There is nothing you can do now to reverse where you are at the point. You have to learn from mistakes and look forward. Soon you'll have two beautiful babies to look after and you need to be emotional stable
I'm here for you if you need to talk! Much love xx
2007-07-20 10:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by ★☆✿❀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Definately not pathetic.
String of bad luck, yes, but not pathetic. You have tools to get yourself out of this mess.
Keep pestering the police to get the guy. Spread the word about what an *** he is-you may be saving another girl from this heartbreak!
Gain weight for your babies' sake and for your own. I know that's tough-I'm a recovered anorexic myself.
Go talk to your OB-see what s/he can do about the barfing.
See if you can convince your brother to tell his friends to back off. If you can't, smack 'em! Just kidding, don't smack them. But find a sactuary where you can go to get away from them! And while you're at that sanctuary, wherever it may be, sit and, as you say, "think things out".
And consider what you want to do with your babies. Can you raise them, or is it better for them for someone else to?
There is such thing as "open adoption", which is where somebody adopts the kids, but you are in their lives and see them every so often.
Think about it, OK? Things will get better! I promise!
2007-07-20 13:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by thereligiousrightisneither 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least you want to make things better. You've made some very bad mistakes but it's not all your fault - not by long way - so don't be too hard on yourself.
Ask for help, get all the support you can and just ride this thing out as best you can. You're very young and even in 10 years time you will still be young; a lot can happen in ten years and things could all change for the better in that time.
2007-07-20 08:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart you are going through a really tough time in your life right now but it WILL get better. You didn't mention you mom so I'm wondering what she has to say and what kind of support is she giving you?
Do you have a teacher or counselor from school that you could talk to or the mom of one of your friends maybe? Having one baby at 15 is a frightening experience but twins is more so. (I know - I have twin daughters and I'm LOTS older) From what you've said you don't have much of a support system in your life right now so even though I don't know you my serious heartfelt advice to you would be to do what ever you can to have a healthy pregnancy and deliver healthy babies and then love them enough to put them up for adoption. There are so many couples out there who would love to have a child or two to shower their love on but are unable to have their own. Talk to a trusted adult to help you find a lawyer who will take on your case or at least give you some free advice about the different types of adoptions that are available. They do have something now called open adoption that might be something you'd be interesed in - this is where you let a couple adopt your babies but you still get to visit and watch them grow up and they'll know that you gave them to a loving family that can provide all of the things you aren't financially or emotionally available to do for them. Then you can concentrate on your life and getting it back in control. Stay in school, do your best - ask for afterschool help if you aren't a very good student, get a part-time job if you can and SAVE your money - preferably in a bank where your siblings can't have access to it, choose a goal in life and work your butt of to achieve it. You have to believe in yourself and you really can do this. Here's a big ole cyber hug for you and just a reminder that even though I don't know you or where you are I believe in you!
I'll check back later to see if you've added anything else. It'll be ok hon.
2007-07-20 09:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The way it sounds to me, you aren't pathetic. You do NEED to eat better or else you will do more harm to yourself. What you need to do is ask for help. Like a school counselor. Don't give up school!! Do as well as you can and keep your children. Also good luck. If you want your life to change it will be difficult. But the best things in life are worth working for. It will be really tough. But you have to keep on working. Take an on line college coarse instead of actually going to college.
Best of Luck
-Angel
2007-07-20 09:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cant help feeling your abit of a drama queen. Plus yesterday in 1 of your questions you said you had 9 siblings.
However if your story is true,which i hope for your sake it isn't then get some help girl and forget about yourself for now and focus on your 2 children you have inside you right now.If you cant eat for yourself then eat for them.Think of it as your not putting weight on you, all the food your eating goes to the babies it wont make a difference to your weight.That's not true but think of it like that.Go to the doctor and tell him or her everything you told us.Nobody on here can help you and your twin babies,only professionals can.Please forget about yourself until your babies are born.Live your life so they can live.Its about hem now,not you.Now please go down into the kitchen and get some food,please.Your children shouldn't suffer because of your problems.
Good luck sweetie
x x x
2007-07-21 00:31:25 · answer #7 · answered by Kαtydid ★ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry sweetheart... You made a couple of bad decisions but that doesn't mean you're a terrible person. You seem very strong if you ask me. Who cares if people think negative things about you, you're not living for them. Those hateful people mean nothing don't worry about them, worry about yourself. Just move forward from here. Best of luck to you. By the way, you are NOT pathetic!
2007-07-20 21:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by starisa218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw gurl kept ya head up.This ain't the way to go.I've been knee deep in $hit b4 to. I once seduced by a boy, that nearly every gurl lusted after. I found out why he really wanted me. But god i don't regret i learned from it. My dads in prison to. My dad held a gun to my forehead when i was only 2 years old. he beat me and my mom. And i haven't seen him in over 10 years. he owes me and my sister over 30,000 thousand in child support, and i don't got alot of money. Just about all of my family are drunks, junkies, felons, prostitutes, or living in the streets. Alot of times i don't know where I'm sleeping at night. Home is like hell. So i just roll wit it and get gone. from friends house to spending all night on the go. Keep ya head up. Don't let no ones words bring you down. Let em say you're worth $hit, but do what i've had to do before and prove wrong and watch where you end up. Find a planned parenthood and ask them for help. Get some medication and please don't go anorexic.Keep ya head up. Much love and luck.
2007-07-20 09:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry hon.Your parents are idiots and you can tell them I said so.You see the mistakes you have made and have learned from them.Just stay on track, you will get through this and over it.GOD loves you and has a plan for your life hon.HE really does.Start seeking HIM, you won't be sorry.If you get a chance, visit a United Pentecostal church, I think you'd like it, and they can help you.Do not make all of this the center of your life and who you are.This is just a series of bad decisions on your part, but thats why your parents should have been doing their jobs.
2007-07-20 11:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of those things aren't your fault, but you have indeed made mistakes. Don't dwell on the past mistakes you have made, because you have a lot more to think about that has to do with your future. You can make a lot out of your life if you are willing to put other issues asidse to focus on your children and your education.
2007-07-20 11:53:59 · answer #11 · answered by leroy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋