have you ever told a girl whatever she wanted to hear just to het her into bed?
it happened to me and it hurt alot.
but im over that now so who else has done it, i wont judge you i promise ;)
2007-07-20 08:23:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
welll he sounded genuine...
maybe im naieve.
2007-07-20 09:08:05 · update #1
good question but no.
would rather she go to bed with me for genuine reasons,and on her terms!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-20 08:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if they have or haven't, what matters is that you move on from the experience.
I know it hurt but think of this. These men have low self-esteem. They don't think they are good enough to relate to someone for more than a day.
I think there are men that can't handle the rejection of if a woman doesn't like them beyond the sex so they lie to themselves and say they've "used someone" or something else derogatory.
Whatever you do, don't beat yourself up. There is nothing "wrong" with you. You are destined to be with a better quality of person than someone who behaves like a lowlife. This guy just wasn't grown up enough and now it's time to put it behind you and if you hear lines of sh*t like what this guy probably said to you, then just keep away.
Look at the answer from "Freddy".....I rest my case. These type of guys view sex as "dirty" and don't know how to deal with being grown ups. "Gullible"? and "get what they deserve"?
Gullible to some is actually how honorable people behave. If you tell someone honorable something, they will take you at your word. If you are lying, you have poisoned yourself and haven't "punished" someone else by having sex with them - or have you?
So, in other words, having sex with these men, (they feel, is a punishment for you). Once again, low self-esteem.
Do you really think you should give such lost and misguided boys like this anymore of your head space?
It happened and you will learn from it.
Their time will come.
You keep being truthful to yourself and a quality guy will come along.
2007-07-20 08:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by KD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I havn't done it. I wonder what girls want to hear that gets them into bed??Theres a handbag sale on, theres a shoe sale?I've done the washing up.Of course your mother can come to stay for ever.What do guys say to get girls into bed? I've put new sheets on the bed?You look ill, do you want to rest?Hun it's 50-50, dont blame the guy totally, you went to bed cos you wanted to just as much as he did.Be a little more honest with yourself and change the easy image you portray, example.....your name and pic.
2007-07-20 08:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by matured 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything a guy says to you is an attempt to get you into bed some will want to do it multipul times others only the once
2007-07-20 12:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by nurgle69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men are guilty of this one including me does not make me proud to think about it but if you are an adult you have a choice to say no.
2007-07-20 08:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Edgein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are instinctively chameleons, they will be whatever they need to be to get what they want. They don't even have to be conscious of it, our primeval selves are programmed to procreate.
Society and social pressure may modify our behaviour, but the instincts persist and young men in particular, driven by their sexual urges, will unfortunately, say whatever you want them to say.
2007-07-20 08:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mars 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can only believe about 5% of what comes out of a mans mouth, the rest is just him trying to get you into the sack!!! We all do it all the time.
2007-07-20 08:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes. Most guys if their honest are the same
2007-07-20 12:12:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have but only when I am in real need of help if you know what I mean.
2007-07-20 08:27:59 · answer #9 · answered by mrjts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never have.... never will.....
Just take time to get to know them .... trust m they'll wait if worth it but when meet right one...WOW even with distance you just know it straight off
2007-07-20 08:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋