2007-07-20 07:51:31 · 19 answers · asked by jija 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok guys and gals! so to all those cool secure dudettes...looking is one thing and being disrespectful towards ur partner is another! would u rather be cool or respected?
2007-07-20 08:28:01 · update #1
Well, to be honest, I'm actually the one saying aywaaaa when I see a nice short skirt, and say to my husband "What a great body". That way, he doesn't feel embarrassed looking at her, and I show him that I'm confident. :-)
To Happy - 2 : are you for real? It's completely nornal for a man to look at pretty women.
You can look at the menu, as long as you don't order...
To Valerie: Well, yes, I do. I have NO problem whatsoever to point out a nice woman. I know my husband is a guy, a normal guy, and instead of fearing to look at a pretty woman, he's OK. He's never ever disrespectful - he just notices, and who can blame him?
Your answer shows your immaturity and insecurtiy.
2007-07-20 07:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by yogi 4 · 5⤊ 3⤋
If he's not looking at other women i'd be a little worried. I know for a fact you look at other men. We are all humans and if we don't look we must be dead. What is wrong with people these days. So what if he even reacted out loud just turn your head the other way and be proud he's not looking at the opposite sex, then you would have something to be worried about. ( You also probably have a low self esteem about yourself other wise it wouldn't have bothered you.)
2007-07-20 16:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know when your husband is being disrespectful in those situations. With me, if I'm in a good mood, he can look, comments are always kept to a very small minimum. and this sort of things happens very, very little. No one is dead, just married. Respect is everything, he should know when and when not to look or make comments. Common Sense. Think about it, you know what catches his eye, you see her before he does!
2007-07-20 14:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tamm 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband is usually checking out the girl in a short skirt, not the skirt itself! hahaha!
Anyways, it doesn't bother me because I check out guys myself. We are not jealous people and we don't go over-board either. It would be inconsiderate and rude if he decided to go up to her and flirt and try to get a phone number! But he doesn't.
My husband loves me and is attracted to me. I feel even more attractive when he finds other girls attractive because he CHOOSES to be with ME! We all look, just don't get to crazy!
2007-07-20 15:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
with my husband it's not the short skirt, it's the low cut shirt. I don't find it hurtful or disrespectful. I am thankful that he doesn't feel the need to hide the fact that he checking someone else out.
2007-07-20 14:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by ofsoundmind 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The smart man quickly learns to look without using anything but his eyes (not head turning, noise making, comments, etc.).
The smart woman is doesn't ask if he looked.
2007-07-20 15:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Mytmel 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is very normal. At least he isnt boarding the "man" bus. It would not be normal if he were checking out guys.
2007-07-20 14:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah right, I am SO SURE "yogi" is saying "great body" and admiring other females to her husband! LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!! The more secure some females TRY to sound, the more INSECURE they sound! LOL!!!!
He wants another women's azz more than yours....and doesn't care how you feel as he admires someone that is not you....wow, you women sure settle!
2007-07-20 15:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's may be normal for him to think it but expressing it doesn't take how you feel about it in to account. You need to tell him you're offended by his comments!
2007-07-20 14:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Normal, cut they guy some slack, stop hen pecking him, stop trying to control his every wakign thought, geeze. No wonder men cheat and leave.
2007-07-20 14:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by javelin 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋