wat happens when u come to know that the person u love has stolen money from ur purse n he denies of doing it?

Question

i luv some1 very deeply,cant afford to lose him,but recently he stole 2000 bucks from my purse, i m damn sure but he denied doing any such thing...i am avoiding him since then but i miss him a lot ...wat shud i do?the moment i hear his voice on phone i start melting ...

Answer 1

If he would steal from you then he most definitely is looking for someone he can ****** into keeping around. I know it is hard to get over feelings when you think you love a person so much but, you really should try.

Maybe he needed the money and I am sure that if you love him as much as you say, you would have gladly given him all you could afford to give if he had only ask. HE FELT THE NEED TO STEAL YOUR MONEY JUST AS HE HAS STOLEN YOUR HEART!! How will you ever be able to completely trust him with your feelings and your heart much less your personal property?

Protect yourself and your heart and let him go. It sounds like he just used you and is looking to keep you on the hook for using later.

Answer 2

Your thinking with your heart when you should think with your head. If someone lies to you, that you love(and they love you too), you have to ask yourself what else they might lie about. Another question is why did thay take the money? Why would they need such a large amount, are they addicted to coke? Either way, I doubt this dishonest person(that probably cheats too, or will someday)is the person that you want to marry. How could thay be if you don't trust them?

Do the right thing and rid yourself of this person. You probably are just infatuated and think that they are soo good looking. Don't worry about it, pleanty of fish in the sea.

You don't have to settle for someone, because you think they are the best you can get. Never settle. Always look for the person that makes you a better person(and vice versa).

Answer 3

You need to get a backbone. This dude stole $2000 from your purse and your heart is melting for him. The only thing that should be melting is his face because you are blowing it off with a blow torch. If you take back a man who stole that much money from you then you're just plain dumb. He will never respect you. Why should he you don't respect yourself enough to leave him alone after stealing a large sum of money from you. Don't take his calls. Don't believe what he says and stay away. I'm willing to bet he must have a some sort of substance abuse problems. Normal people don't steal that amount of money just for fun!

Answer 4

I would suggest you RUN; The makeup of the body is designed to heal itself, you WILL get over him and you can NOT afford to stay, besides, you WILL BE BETTER OFF, why are feeling so insecure about yourself in not finding someone better, b'sides there's someone for everyone, just continue to LOOK and not be Vunerable; already you prove you are too good for him anyway, he is a thief a liar and a scam artist who prey on innocent women, and not worthy of you, tell him that you had contacted the police to investigate the missing moneys and although you don't believe it they suspects him, and may be contacting him (if he calls again), busy yourself with other hobbies or friends to pass the time, (join the Club, I stayed married to the same type of person for over 20 yrs, thinking he would change, they never do and are usually drop dead georgeous/handsome and superman in bed),don't continue to prove how vunerable and foolish and weak women can be, put in a stroke for women everywhere you are hiding your strength behind your weakness, I guarantee you will heal in time I have, and I thought I wouldn't , I am 100% better off today, now divorced, and he has since preyed on other woman after me,

So be strong and put in a Plug for womankind everywhere, YOU CAN DO IT...

Answer 5

The trust is gone from this relationship. Once that happens, it is terribly hard to get that back. This is why most marriages don't survive infidelity. It would take a lot of effort from both parties, and usually one or the other isn't willing to put in that amount of energy. If he's willing to steal from you, it shows that he has no problem putting aside his morals. What else might he do? How much more might he 'lower the bar' in the future?

You need to run fast and far from this one.

Answer 6

I'm not sorry to say that I don't want any man who stole from me.

Stealing money out of your purse is one of the worst things he could ever do to you and beyond that, he is a liar.

In this you need to use your head and not allow yourself to 'melt' into a lifetime of misery with someone who has betrayed your trust in two ways that matter immensely all at once.

You can afford to lose him! In fact, he's no loss at all!

Sorry, but you asked!

Answer 7

this is the price you pay for finding our the reality of the person.. It is good that he exposed himself before it is late..

You love him so much that you trusted him but he misused your trust..

Now you should have some self respect and will power to do away from him . he should not be your addiction, Love is addictive but not a slave... You should now choose you want to have a cheater husband or a self respecting man as your husband

2000 bucks are beginning of a larger scale operation..
If he comes to know that , inspite of your knowing he as cheat , you have fallen for him. he will play the game again and again till you are bankfupt, and ruined..

He may cheat you on other things too money love, property..

Answer 8

You may be in love with a person that steals. He has a problem with stealing and even lying. You also have a problem with loving that person. He may just be interested with your money or just particularly money and he is using you because you have some. We could only give you advise but you will have to make your own decision. Whatever you decide, be ready to face the consequences.

Answer 9

Does he have a drug problem? He sounds like there is an underlying issue there. If he can steal from you and deny it, he either has some real issues or he is a real azz.

Personally, I could not be with somebody that could steal from me~especially that large of an amount of money. I think you should move on.

Answer 10

Tell him u no he did it ! an tell him U can notsee A thife N A LIer! Tell him Your love is for real people that due not lie or steal from you! I know this will hurt you more than it will hurt him,caz he dont care 4 u if he did he would not be stealing,and lieing 2 you! You need A creal man like me ! how about A rebound love affair?