preventing you from living your life? do the things you wanna do?
ive had alot of trauma and abuse ive been through in my life, and victimization and bullying....i feel the system has let me down and is persecuting me....iam not british i have french and german heretage, and now, i want to leave britain and build a new life elsewhere and put my traumatic past behind me.....but i have alot of rage, rage problems and borderline personality disorder, which impairs my ability to live my life...so im waiting for therapy....and i feel trapped because i know i cant leave right now.. i hate britain and what the system has put me through here....ive been bullied my street gangs, assaulted, had head injuries..and now i feel there are people against me here, although i cant prove it, dodgy criminal looking people look at me..i feel threatened when out..and because of all this i have a big rage problem, never made a single friend through life. now i just wanna move away build a new life
2007-07-20 07:43:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
but i feel either people around me and
the system are working against me.....
i really hate britain and cant stand living
here and i want to move away....but i have
to remain here to get the therapy i need..
so i feel trapped...
can anyone suggest any ideas or strategies to
get me through this? until i can leave here?
im 30 now and im extremely unhappy because i have dreams
and ambitions i want to fullfill, like moving away.
i dont want somebody from britain answering telling me
the grass looks greener, and to build a life here..because
i dont aggree so its pointless you answering.
2007-07-20 07:43:54 · update #1
You really have been through alot in your life.
It's no wonder you feel the way you do.
Your feelings are justified, but where is it getting you feeling this way?
You're holding on to alot of anger about things that you can't control.
That is where therapy will help you.
All you can really do is stay there, get the help you need, and look at it as you are in the process of managing your own life and moving on.
It will take time, but it will be worth it.
I really don't think you can do it on your own, the therapy will definitely help.
Have you been to a doctor about this?
I wish the best for you.
I wish you happiness.
I wish you love.
I wish you strength.
I wish you guidance.
All these things I wish for you,
to make all your dreams come true ;)
2007-07-20 08:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't do anything but share this....there is not one place on this planet that will be exempt from what you see as perfection. I'm not so sure your view of perfection is all that good for U or anyone that seeks it.
"but i have alot of rage, rage problems and borderline personality disorder, which impairs my ability to live my life"
~~~~If you are pushing people's buttons what do you expect? Most people don't like to be lied to and taunted ----you have two issues to work on personal responsibility(honesty) and your boredom...the opposite of boredom is _____ I can't fill in that blank for you. Does that sound more reasonable than giving yourself an excuse? If someone gave it to you in the first place and didn't get real with you then that it is a loss but definitely doesn't mean you can't change. Learn to mend your fences seriously and if you don't want nasty things done to yourself don't do it to others...it puts people in the defense mode and when that occurs you can't honestly say you did nothing wrong. Well, you could "say" it but it's not real......
That's all I have to share.
2007-07-20 08:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a Deliverance Ministry close to you. You have many spiritual problems and only the Lord can change your life. A
Christian psychiatrist may be able to help you, but a regular Freudian psychiatrist seldom helps anyone. They end up medicating without getting to the roots of the spiritual problems. There is nothing wrong with medication for awhile, but it is not a cure. When the Lord sets you free, you will be free of rejection, self-hatred, worry , bitterness and anger. If you want your life changed, you need to speak to the Life Changer who is Jesus Christ our Lord. Find a Deliverance Ministry now. They usually accept donations and most people walk away completely changed forever. Whether you believe in demonic spirits or not, they do exist.
2007-07-20 08:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's alot of issues you have there....before moving perhaps you should see a counselor to help you thru these issues. moving wont solve anything because you will just take them with you and go thru the same cycle over again. And please don't blame "the system" for any of your woes. People do that all the time...its the ones that actually pick THEMSELVES up that get out of it........stop feeling sorry for yourself talk to someone about your rage and other trauma...once you have worked all that out then and only then should you move. sorry if thats not what you want to hear but its the truth.
2007-07-20 07:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to leave Britain, leave... and find therapy in a different country. Therapy is important but often getting away from a bad environment does just as much wonders as therapy.
2007-07-20 07:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by wandering_helper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋