Ok, well I have known this person for about 16 yrs. we had some classes together in middle & high school.We would hang out every once in awhile after we, no I mean I gradauted. We only go out like maybe once every year or something like that. She is a nice person, but we don't have anything in common, she doesn't really value education the same that I do. Our lives have taken two completley differernt paths, & I have changed a lot since school. Not saying that she hasn't had her own growths, but like I said I am not the same person, & she just hasn't seen it yet I guess? So how can I tell her nicely? I tried just not giving her my new # but when I did that she calls my parents house. I don't want her bothering my parents, so I gave in & gave her my number. My problem is that she selfproclaims herself as my best friend & has for years. But she didn't invite me to her wedding, & now that I am getting married she is mad that I didn't tell her we got engaged until almost a month after.
2007-07-20
07:15:35
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Rory, thank you for your commment, however, I feel like she is dragging me down,keeping me in a mind set I no longer hold, and haven't held in a long time. I am almost a completely different person. She bores me. I am not trying to sound like I am better than her, we just don't have anything in common. We don't even hold the same values. I am just trying not to hurt her feelings and get a lot of people involved. I just want a free break, but I can't seem to get one, since she hunts me down!
2007-07-20
11:40:44 ·
update #1
Did I mention that anytime in the past when I have tried to drift apart from her she hunts me down? She will come to my job, or to my mom's work, or just drop by my parents house, ( I recently moved back there to finish school). If I don't call her she wants an explaination or she will try to guilt trip me. It's like she thinks once I am done with school I will have all this time for her, when really after I get married we are moving out of state. Maybe then she will leave me alone!!!?
2007-07-20
12:02:41 ·
update #2