i've tried a couple of times.. but i feel my husband is not satisfied.. even if i am just a "beginner" i feel very guilty coz of that.. help me plzz
2007-07-20 07:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first don't get advice from red book or cosmo or any other women magazine, that's what women "want" their man to like,
if you want advice from a magazine get maxim or some other mens magazine, now the best advice i can give you is to remember that as far as your concerned sex with your partner should be all about him, and vice versa for him, yes thats right good sex is selfless, the other advice i can give you is to figure out how his "parts" work then imagine if it was yours what would you like to feel,
the other rule is you have to like sex, if you don't you'll never get it, imagine how bad a steak would taste if it was cooked by a vegetarian
2007-07-20 07:29:04 · answer #1 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw a pinky in his bum. Use his reaction as a basis to start a dialog to find out what more you can do to satisfy him. If he wants you to play more with his rear- You may have one in the closet who doesn't know it yet.
2007-07-20 14:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by scott m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask hime what he wants? This way you will know and you can practice your skills. One thing I know for sure is that all men love their women to perform a wet sloppy b l ow job on them. They are especially pleased when we swallow their come without complaining. If all these don't work, ask him if he would like to invade your backdoor? That is sure to get him going.
2007-07-20 14:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get frustrated, keep trying different things. Get one of those books that help in this area. It takes time and trial and error.
2007-07-20 14:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by TheSafetyMan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he likes and dislikes and it will take some time for you to figure out what to do. Its fun to learn and explore. Im sure he understands.
2007-07-20 14:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, most men want a lady in public....... but a complete s-l-u-t in the bedroom. Best advise my grandmother ever gave me! There is no secret to it!
2007-07-20 14:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by Patricia W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first, this ain't about just one of you. It's good to desire to please but you have the right & he the obligation to please also. Relations need to be a giving thing. I have used a website to improve my approach & relations with my wife with some pleasnat success. Drop me a line & I can forward it to you.
2007-07-20 14:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by mikebnchprss 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the source. Ask him what he likes that you have not done yet. And then go for it unless perverted.
2007-07-20 14:15:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get advice from ur mom, i did. (if you have a close relationship like that) or just buy books.
i love to please my hubby in every way, and trust me it took yrs of practice.lol
2007-07-20 14:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him in a cute way-is he life jello afterwards
2007-07-20 14:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋