im a 14 year old girl who smokes and did a little pot when i was 12 i got fingered at 13 and 2 mons. ago i lost my verginity to my best friends boy-friend while she was sleeping in the other room. Im pregnant now and I was wondering what i can do to get my life on track?
2007-07-20 07:04:34 · 11 answers · asked by Taylor C 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
no abortions
2007-07-20 07:05:30 · update #1
tell your parents. and hopefully they are able to help you with the baby. if you can't handle it, adoption. but you will regret it later in life. you made the choice to have sex, now you have to deal with it.
2007-07-20 07:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by stop it 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
and you're only 14 and having this problems...think that you're just a child... if you did these things, probably you're relation with your family, especially parents. isnt so good... (no hard feelings, but this happens usually when you have this) ... first i htink you should decide if you want the baby...then tell your parents what you did... i think your main priority should be at this age studying. not reproducing... it is really unhealthy to have sex before 18, since biologically speaking the body isnt ready for this... so slow down... if you need more guiding, i suggest you see a therapist which might help you find the answers by yourself, resuming to what you want from your life... best of luck to you, and dont worry, you're still young and have all your life in front of you... take care
2007-07-20 07:14:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how sure are you that you're pregnant? Secondly, you MUST tell you're family. I know that can be hard to do but no matter what they're still going to love you. It's up to you, but keeping the baby is going to ruin you're life. Give it up to a family who will give it a good home, love it, and give it a better chance at life than you probably could yourself. Best of luck!
2007-07-20 07:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by Katie T 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1 stop having sex
2 give it up for adoption
3 stop smoking
4 quit pot
5 go to rehab
6 let your parents help you
2007-07-20 09:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by KatrinaGabrielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The choices you make dictate the life you lead. Is adoption an option? Have you told your parents?
2007-07-20 11:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have the baby and give it up for adoption right away. You'll be doing everyone a favor, especially the baby.
2007-07-20 07:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel T 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are 14 years old, you SMOKE and smoke POT, and you're sleeping with guys...WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS?!?!?!? Shame on them! You need discipline...big time!
2007-07-20 09:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is true I hope you learned your lesson! Im shaking my finger at you! "shame" shame"
2007-07-20 12:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the doctor
2007-07-24 04:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by college gurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start having sex with black men to prepare you for child birth.
2007-07-20 07:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋