ok so it was all good before but ever since my gf said she wanted to **** me off i was afraid it might not go up and ever since it is hard 2 get it up. how do i overcome this?
2007-07-20 06:16:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Just relax. Most men do not have women that are so eager to do that.
2007-07-20 06:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by errrrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be Performance Anxiety. You should relax. It is caused by a feeling that you were commanded to perform. Try to get your girlfriend to take it slower. In this case, the guy requires relaxation. You may have a fear that you are not going to perform to her expectations - either that, or she is psyching you out. Don't defeat yourself with worry.
Disclaimer: I am giving advice, but I do not believe people should be engaging in sexual intimacy without a commitment. Ultimately you are cheapening the idea of forming relationships with people and are only harming your ability to commit in the long run. There is something to be said for delaying one's gratification. The ability to delay gratification is one of the primary signs of cognitive and evolutionary growth. Sexual intimacy in humans should be meaningful, otherwise join a pack or orangutans.
2007-07-20 13:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have erectile dysfunction. If it's serious, consider trying the magical blue pill. ;)
2007-07-20 13:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by Captain Shrednaut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur doomed!
2007-07-20 13:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋