He's 12, a good boy, but, like most boys his age, sometimes he's somewhat disrespectful and sometimes likes to bully his lil sister, that is 10. I found a punishment that has worked great and is really changing the boy's behavior. When he is disrespectful or bullies his sister, I make him do extra chores wearing a full sweet frilly apron, with a large bow in the back. He gets embarrassed, but then I'm kinda firm. I dont humiliate him and let him know I love him, but depending on what he did, he has to spend some hours or even a day wearing that apron. But I don't make him wear it in public or in front of his friends.
2007-07-20 04:30:32 · 26 answers · asked by Tania 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hahahaha That's hilarious! Judging by how alot of 12 year olds act I'd say that's perfect. Hell if I was him I'd stop bullying my sister to get out of wearing an apron. Very creative punishment. Kudos
2007-07-20 04:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ericka 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
I know people will give me thumbs down but I really don't care. I think what you are doing is wrong. How can you even say that you are not humiliating him? You said yourself that he gets embrassed! That's the meaning of humiliation! I think you are playing favorites making him dress like that. You are going to screw this kids up. One day he's going to be wearing women's panties and you'll be the reason. I would never do that to my child. It's sick.
You're a great role model. After reading more about it I think you are doing a terrible thing to your kid. I feel sorry for your son. I think you enjoy this too much. Why would you go online and brag about this? I seriously doubt that your son is ok with this. It's sick and you should stop doiong this. I assure you that you are going to cause lasting damage to your son. I don't think you're that worried about it though since you're bragging about what you do. I really think your son is being put on the back burner for your daughter. What do you do to punish her? You are bullying your son and being disrespectful. Good luck with the monster you are surely creating in both your children.
Pinafore eroticism
Petticoating or pinaforing, is a kind of roleplay or fantasy that revolves around a male being dressed as a girl in front of his mother, sisters, or in some cases, girls of his own age whom he had offended by his boorish behavior.
There is evidence that forced feminization, where boys are made to dress as girls, has occasionally been used as a form of discipline.[1][2][3][4] However, within petticoating roleplay this is usually heavily exaggerated, including elaborate humiliation and public nudity.[5]
Petticoating roleplay may include being forced to wear makeup and to carry dolls, purses, and other items associated with girls.[6] Sometimes, boys were made to perform tasks that they considered to be "girls' work" and to appear in public in girls' clothing with their mothers, who occasionally dressed in matching outfits. Some people claim that for the mothers, pinaforing sometimes had a sexual context, and many mothers who disciplined their sons in this fashion either had long wanted daughters or found it erotic to feminize their sons.[7] In addition, according to the folklore of people with this condition, this type of castigation is found in the history of some of those who later develop Transvestic fetishism.[8]
Petticoat discipline also occurs in the context of some marital relationships, as a means by which a wife may exert control over her husband. This may involve various items of feminine clothing or underwear in a variety of contexts, ranging the husband having to wearing a feminine apron around the house whilst performing household chores, to the wife insisting that the husband wears a brassiere on a full-time basis[9] under ordinary male clothing. In all such circumstances, there is a strong reliance on the element of humiliation, whether actual or potential, should the husband's secret be discovered.
2007-07-20 05:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by musicpanther67 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
nicely I by no ability. i don't see how putting a boy in a female apron is going to make him exchange his behaviour. you will probable get the comparable result if he wears a boys apron if he has to accomplish a little chores. i'm not an recommend for go gender dressing for any reason, punishment blanketed. i don't sense the will or prefer to placed on a manly apron and that i don't prefer to be certain a guy (or as a consequence a boy) placed on a female apron. i know the kind of apron you describe (I also have a pair myself) yet they are defiantly not male dresses.
2016-12-14 14:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so funny!!!! I think its ok, as long as like you say you dont make him wear it in front of his friends or in public. I would also make sure his sister does not bully him while he's wearing the apron, so that he doesnt feel its girls against boy. Good idea though, its better than hitting, or timeout. Plus he gets to help you out around the house!
2007-07-20 04:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by YE 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, if he still does it, it's not really working, is it? I have no problem with extra chores, but you are kidding yourself when you say you aren't "humiliating" him. You certainly are, otherwise you wouldn't be using adjectives like "sweet" and "frilly" to describe it.
No dinner, lots of hard yard work, scrubbing the bathroom floor with a toothbrush -- nope, I don't have a problem with that. But making fun of a 12 year old's latent sexualty is, to me, just WRONG. So if your daughter is disrespectful, does she have to wear a jock strap?
2007-07-20 05:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am a 31 year old mom with a 4yr and 7yr boys. I think punishing a child has to take into consideration the childs' personality. If he does not seem to think you are being unreasonable and he understands the point you are trying to make, I think it is OK. The only bad thing I see is if he sees a man in an apron (non-frilled), I hope he understands that is an OK think to do. Most great chefs are men. If your daughter has to wear on one day, I hope she thinks it is OK too.
2007-07-20 04:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by LissaJ 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Pinaforing And Petticoating
2016-11-04 10:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good punishment! I love those kind of punishments- the ones that bring the kid back down to earth. Yeah! Let him eat a big piece of humble pie.
2007-07-20 05:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by Squeegee Beckingheim :-) 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
me and my mom just had a good laugh about that one she just told my 16 year old brother this is what shes gonna do w/ him now when he gets a smart month she said your 100% right after taking things away and time outs doesn't work you have to do something b4 he really hurts his sister! good job!
2007-07-20 05:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There a lot worse things you can do to a child. You are not making him wear it in front of this friends or out in public and if the punishment works and you don't compromise his self worth then go with it.
2007-07-20 04:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by meresmith1015 3 · 6⤊ 3⤋