not any more.
2007-07-20 04:22:47
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answered by ooooooooooooo 6
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By barometer, I am assuming you mean "gage." :) To measure a relationship by "sex" is tricky. First of all, if the relationship is thriving, i.e., there is good communication, utmost respect, trust, desire for each other, (not just sexually), adoration, love, and the ability to give to each other (unselfishly), then the sex (in a normal vibrant relationship) should be great. I have always believed if a couple begins to lose interest in each other sexually, then something else is going on. Great sex is not about performance. This is where so many people miss this. It really is about intimacy, and you cannot be truly intimate with a person that you don't have an amazing connection of heart and soul with. So, if one is to use anything as a gage for measuring if their relationship is good or not, it should be in examining their ability to communicate, to share, to love freely..to look at their intimacy. Looking at the closeness of their connection. If these qualities exist, not only will their relationship bare wonderful fruit, but it will be lasting, fulfilling and the sex will be so much better than "good."
2007-07-20 04:58:09
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answered by Just a writer at the sea... 3
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Well not like it should be on a barometer but it does matter to men and some women.
Sex is important in a relationship just like personality or looks etc. Depending on the person all reasons differ or are scaled differently.
Personaly if a women enjoys sex and your doing it because of love and not just because your friends are doing it or becasue you think that you can keep a man if you give it up then sex is great.
hope that helps (P.S. sex is way better with someone you learn to grow with and love not just a random hit here and there) ( Learned that the hard way)
2007-07-20 04:25:04
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answered by Anonymous
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In the many decades of sex during a relationship, I have noticed that the sex suffers first, and, yes, acts as a barometer to problems in the relatinship because of it's personal nature. When its good, there isn't personal problems that need to be solved.
2007-07-20 15:12:24
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answered by Anonymous
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Is there such a thing as too much value for sex? People like to pretend like it's no big deal, but sex is important.
Some couples can get along with out it, but they are rare, and usually she's lying.
2007-07-20 04:21:47
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answered by 47 3
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Sex is the gift of a good relationship.
2007-07-20 15:26:57
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answered by Anonymous
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No, after sex you need to be able to talk. Sex is physical, I believe that you intellectual stimulation to have a fuflfilling relationship. Sex gets boring
2007-07-20 04:20:58
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answered by Dorothy L 1
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50% for sex and 50% for love. Both of them are indispensable in a good relationship.
2007-07-20 07:56:12
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answered by Mimi 6
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Nope
2007-07-20 04:19:54
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answered by sweetsnickers 5
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some times I like to be up normal like make the relationship many times in same night
2007-07-20 04:26:56
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answered by saed s 1
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Its not the most important thing in a relationship but it is important in a healthy relationship. sexual frustrations can cause problems in other areas of a relationship
2007-07-20 04:25:06
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answered by Anonymous
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