I makes me sick that she is even with this guy. He keeps her away from all her friends. He just go out of jail being there for 6 months for drug dealing. He's basically a psyco path and thats putting it nicely. I havent even met him but the things he says when I talk with her on the phone make me cringe. One day I went on aim and saw her on and got all excited and imed her and it was him, playing around and just started threatening me. I serioulsy hate this guy. At first I was excited to throw her a baby shower but now I want nothing to do with them. I feel bad but I can;'t welcome this lunatic into my life. What shoudl I do? She's preganant and wants to be with him, should I just stop being friends with her? It makes me sad bc I'm getting married in a year and I dont' even want to invite her to the wedding because of him.
2007-07-20 02:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by spadezgurl22 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Unfortunately there is not much you can do. Tell you friend straight out what you think, stand by it. Stand by your friend. You could hurt your relationship with her if you overstep your boundaries. She (unfortunately) will have to make the decision.
2007-07-20 03:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a year things can change between the two of them, so you should still invite her to the wedding...don't stop being her friend, b/c she has a "psycho path" in her life...she needs your friendship and support even more now that she is pregnant, but even more later once the baby is born...continue to support her, but at the same time express to her your concerns about the relationship
2007-07-20 02:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her decision if she wants to stay with the guy, but as a friend I would tell her to get out, shes probably staying with the guy because she is pregnant with his kid. I just ended my relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years because of abuse. She will eventually know she is wrong for staying in that relationship.
2007-07-20 03:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a true friend, help her. Call the cops for the abuse of your friend. He threatens you call the police. She is NOT ready to have a baby. Tell her to get out NOW. Before its to late. There are places that she can go to get away from him. Such as a womens center, that can keep her safe. Dont let her be a victim of abuse.
Good luck
2007-07-20 02:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by sarah s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yr friend needs u more than ever be there for her she needs to run in opposite direction for her sake and baby's it doesn't get better only worse she should contact domestic abuse hotline they will guide her from there
2007-07-20 02:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by granny58 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋