I myself hate bondage sex but my girlfriend always ask me for that Why? And some times she even dose it for me. i hate it is it because she loves me or hates me i am so confused !!!
2007-07-20 02:09:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sam. You found the words to ask us this question and it is valid. Use these same words on your GF. No one should have to do something they feel uncomfortable about or just plain out right don't like to do.
So tell her this using the same words you told us. However, be prepared to lose her. I have been into the BDSM scene for some time. Mostly the spanking part of the scene. I can tell you that people who are into BDSM, will only be with people who are into BDSM. They feel more comfortable with like minded people.
Sorry to say this, but you do not have to be with someone who makes you uncomforatble or who "forces" you to do something you don't like.
2007-07-20 02:26:17 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women That Like Bondage
2016-12-13 10:07:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to all problems with differing tastes in sex is communication. Talk about the various things you don't like about it and ask her what she does like about it. Some women like to be dominated in sex, to be in the hands of a strong man who takes control. Some don't want that. She may want the excitement or the taboo of it. Maybe after talking about what you do and don't like about it you can come to some sort of compromise.
I hear, ahem, that neckties from the thrift store can be used to make silky gentle bonds for love play. I'm just sayin'.
2007-07-20 02:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you questioning it so much? You sound like a woman!
I don't really like sex at all so you're barking up the wrong tree.
2007-07-20 02:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't want to do this, don't do it. You might want to question your relationship with a girl who has such desires. It has nothing to do with her loving or hating you. It's about her feelings about herself. You need to think about continuing this relationship.
2007-07-20 02:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you hate it so much, why are you doing it? tell her what you're telling us. if she loves you as much as she does than she'll understand. maybe do it every now and then to please her than doing it all the time.
2007-07-20 02:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Shrimpboat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋