Almost one a half years no contact with my hubby but after all I found out he have already another woman, I am planning to have a devorce. It is good not to marry again? And it is good to play the relationship towards men like what usually men do to women?
2007-07-20 02:06:19 · 8 answers · asked by rockstones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce is never a good thing.
However; thier are many times where it is necessary.
Sorry, to hear things can not be worked out.
It is not easy on the other side of being single, not today.
FInd a church and meet good people, and your life will trun around.
You for sure will not find what you want forever in a bar.
Best Wishes to you on your decision!
2007-07-20 02:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no reason to stay in the relationship.when you start dating ,the first few guys will be a rebound and hopefully not a decient guy because you wont really be looking for that.but treat them with respect,you dont like it done to you ,and you want to be a good person who can lay there head down at night knowing you were not hateful to anyone.when you feel your ready to start dating seriously again,dont sit around waiting on the call from him.be active and fun.dont throw your self in head first ,not look like you need to know everything about him.dont tell all about yourself,try to keep something a mystery that he is wanting to discover.not all guys are a#s holes.after 3 divorces and many years, i have found the greastest thing that god could give me,i have never been so connected with another guy as i have my new husband.
2007-07-20 02:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can really tell you what is best for you. but if you get a divorce take the time after that for yourself, not playing the feild, not playing games with relationships, not making choices about the rest of your life, just use the time to learn yourself, what you want, what you don't, treating yourself to a good life, being nice to yourself. then after you heal you can deceide what you want to do.(divorce is like death-you go through mourning for something you lost) these are life altering choices and there is no time limit on how soon you have to make them. take all the time you need. you did not say how long you were married. thought for the future...if you are married (living together or not) 10 years or more then you are entitled to draw off his social security whan you retire, if he passes while you are married (living together or not) you are entitled to widows benefits. check into the laws in your state, since there is no hurry take all the time you need.
2007-07-20 02:18:57 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, you were never married! Any man who leaves his wife for another woman didn't want to be married in the first place. When the question of marriage comes into play in a relationship, both parties should be ready for marriage and should know who they wish to marry and spend the rest of their lives with. "Marriage" is a sacred act and should not be taken as an unholy procedure. So, unless your just stupid, you should divorce at once.
2007-07-20 02:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by esteban g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with getting a divorce from someone who doesn't care about you. You made a mistake in marrying the bum and now you can rectify it.
But don't let this sour you on another relationship. Who knows who you will meet or when? Just be yourself; be open and honest and don't play games. Not all men are like the one your getting rid of.
2007-07-20 02:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not divorce him. I would see the counsel of an attorney and you may be able to have the marriage annulled. An annullment is better for the social lives of both of you because you can say to someone new...you've never been married.
2007-07-20 02:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by mikeae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you parading around as "hottie babe" leads me to beleive that you are a player also. love and marriage are sacred and not meant to be played as a game. you need to punish some poor bastard who end up with you because you got hurt??? that not right and it will catch up to you. so i wouldnt suggest that. smile, be gratefull, and enjoy this life
2007-07-20 02:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must unless you have a major problem with finance
2007-07-20 02:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by CDG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋