My Husband and I have only been married a short time, and I admit I may have gained a little weight, But .... or should I say BUTT... is all he wants, nothing else.
He always jokes in front of our friends that it's okay to come in the back door as long as he wipes his feet first.
Is there anyting I can do to spice things up the way they used to be ?????
It really hurts my feelings when he talks this way in front of other people.
2007-07-20 02:05:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cars & Transportation ➔ Boats & Boating
Throw him overboard! tee hee
2007-07-20 02:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He must be some kind of bone head to discuss both your private time in front of others. He should be telling you how you delight him. I'd suggest you prepare a "recipe" on a love note to inform him of your personal delights.
Good Luck!
Meanwhile, I'll betcha you can do none of this on a Hobie Cat. If you're not hang-in on you ain't sailing fast!
2007-07-20 09:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Country Boy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him. Be open about your feelings. It`s the only way. He may not be conscious that his behavior is hurting you. You just got married, so this should work.
2007-07-20 13:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by piglet 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well darlin ... the two of you need to have a heart-to-heart regarding what is discussed about what you do be behind closed doors .. in my case it was just the opposite ... my (now ex) wife talked to all her girl friends about the things we did .. and yes I managed to teach her to enjoy "backdoor" sex as well as oral etc .. her friends convinced her she was being way too lenient in what she allowed me to do .. hmmm werent we doing it together? anyway the end result is that due to no discussion between us that and many other reasons resulted in divorce ... communication communication communicaiton
2007-07-20 09:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Indiana Frenchman 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tel him if he finds the person in the canoe once in a while, the back door may be open.
2007-07-20 09:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are made uncomfortable when he makes comments of a sexual nature to his friends pertaining to your intimate activities. Also tell him when you get what you want THEN he can have what he wants. Hope this helps.
2007-07-20 13:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by ohmyhaloslipped 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately a good boating question.
2007-07-20 09:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by Huw 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Does all of this take place on a boat?
2007-07-20 09:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Should I just eat the cheesecake then?
2007-07-20 09:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sound like he is the one missing out....
need a play mate ?
2007-07-20 09:09:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋