is this missing out and is it difficult to start late, be honest girls would a guy need experience
2007-07-20 00:26:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No I don't think it unusual, I have 4 friends like this, and I admire them to not give in to peer pressure and just do it for the sake of doing it
Also = it really doesn't make a difference whether a guy is experienced or not, as every woman is different. I have had some guys who know 1 thing which has turned on their ex, and they do it to a new girl thinking she will love it but she hates it! Everybody's different. The only thing that matters is that you are expressing your love for that person and they will feel that, not some new fancy technique that is supposed to be the "new big thing"! Plus,a girl with a bit of sense will help her man find the right places and show him what she likes. The main thing is to remember to enjoy yourself and not to worry.
2007-07-20 00:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by lala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not weird. I bet when I'm 24 I still won't have a boyfriend and will remain a virgin. People who are like 'oh you must be ugly then if you haven't had a girlfriend by now' but that's not true. There are reasons why people still remain a virgin when they are that age. Reasons could be due to religion. I mean, I am 17 and i have never had a boyfriend and I am still a virgin because my religion forbids dating and sex outside marriage. But there are other reasons why people would remain being a virgin, maybe because they don't feel the need to have a lover or to have sex to enjoy life. You can be single and love it. No it is not weird, there are plenty of people who are still virgins and have not had lovers when they are 24. You're not alone.
2007-07-20 00:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, no, and no. Anyone who tries to tell you that you are worthy of a relationship only if you are "experienced" is full of it. Why waste your time on someone with that mentality anyway? When you are in the right relationship it will never be difficult. If it is, it's wrong! As for the girlfriend thing, what's wrong with being comfortable being alone. Do you really need one to be a functioning adult? NO! As for missing out....on what?! Possible pregnancies, STD's, and drama, attachment, break-ups. Sounds more and more fun all the time. I think you may be the smart one, and I messed up!!!
2007-07-27 16:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by mzh_bakkar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't weird.
Maybe you haven't met someone that you've felt comfortable enough with.
I know I don't plan on having sex until I have been dating someone for a least a year and if that makes me a prude so be it .
I think when the time is right and you are with a person who you trust enough it will happen.
2007-07-22 06:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by rena9wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird at all, shows you've waited because thats whats right for you.
as for starting late, of course not, not if you find the right person and experience comes with ... experience.
lots of people wish they'd waited. for me it was no big thing and i never thought it was. i dont regret it, but i wouldnt say it was right either. in fact i wouldnt say it was anything, it was just something that happened at that time in my life.
when it comes to it you'll be fine, and age is a number so theres no such thing as late staring!
hope that helps honey,, though i dont know which bit if any or all is helpful!!! xxx
2007-07-27 12:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Draconia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little unusual, but not weird. You are perhaps very shy around girls. A self-confidence class may be worth thinking about (your local college may have them).
Don't think you've got to have experience in order to please a woman. Read some books (NOT TOP-SHELF STUFF) about sex, so that you can be clued-up. Make friends with girls, and get your mates to introduce you to some. When you meet a girl you can trust, love and respect, the rest will come naturally. Good luck.
2007-07-20 01:02:22 · answer #6 · answered by shutyerfaceup 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not 'wierd' wierd. But I would question why you are holding back? Have you had opportunity's and turned them down or are you simply not meeting the right people?
Myself personally I didn't 'properly' kiss anyone till I was 19 and I lost my virginity a year later, I could have done it sooner but did not feel ready at the time. When it happened I wanted to do it and felt ready.
2007-07-20 01:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, it is nice if a guy has experience, but on the otherhand it makes you feel like another 'notch' on the bedpost.....
But when your with the right person, experience or not, its still special.
No, i don't think its weird, its sweet, means your saving yourself for the right person, a rare find these days...
2007-07-25 10:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by MANDY D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never had a girlfriend I would say probably to, however, remaining a virgin til marriage is an honorable and respectable thing to do.
2007-07-27 14:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by bog2477 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each will have their own time. It is just a matter of patience. Girls would like somebody who is experienced i guess yes, but if the girl cares for you, then i am sure she would guide you anyway.
It is better to be told what to do, than to blunder in without a clue, so when the time comes, don't be embarrassed if she tells you how to do something.
As for missing out, how can you miss out on something you have never tried? That is only for you to discover when it happens.
2007-07-20 00:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by Xzar 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋