OK........... MY FRIEND JESICA IS 14 AND SHE WANTED A BABY AND SHE POLKED A NEEDEL IN THE CONDOM RAPPER WHEN HER BOYFRIEND WENT TO THE BATHROOM BEFORE SEX AND NOW SHE IS PREGENT AND I DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD TELL ANYONE ANY ADVICE????
HELP ASAP THIS IS SERIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-19 22:29:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
umm....you should tell someone! i'm guessing the 'father' doesnt know. and she needs someone to take care of her. and honestly no women(no matter how strong and independant) could go nine month with out any ones help. and sorry but people are gonna notice. sooner the better
2007-07-19 22:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is in for a shocker when she finds that caring for a baby when she is still one herself is not going to be a day at the mall. I feel that what she did was entrapment, her boyfriend had no idea what she was doing or planning, but the sad thing now is that he will have to deal with this for the rest of his life and my feelings on this is that he is not going to be happy and will most likely give up his parental rights. You need to tell someone, because she was only thinking about herself on this one. She now has a life to care for and I know a 14yr old is not going to be able to do that. Good luck hun
2007-07-20 05:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
this isn't the one who wants to be a stripper or tuscany, you keep a wild bunch of friends must never be a dull moment, I don't think any girl is that stupid if she is get her to a psychiatrist she needs professional help!
If this is true doing the right thing is not always the easiest, first you must disclose this to the boyfriend with someone who you trust as a witness, second I would talk to her mom again with a witness, it's not the easiest thing to do and tempers will flare and probably some drama as well, but making a wrong into a right is not easy but your decision will determine what kind of person you will be, the truth is always the right thing to do no matter the cost, best wishes and wishing you the best,
2007-07-20 05:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by gynodoc 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This must be one of the dumbest thuings I have ever heard of... but then your friend is in for a rude shock when the baby comes. Should you tell anybody? Yes tell the boyfriend what happened... he surely has a right to know that his immature little girlfriend has trapped him into something he at least took the precaution to try and prevent. You owe him that at least!
2007-07-20 08:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by alanickers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if they don't know she's pregnant, then yes tell her parents.
but if it's about the poking the hole in the condom.........well she's already pregnant so it's kinda pointless to say anything now, so unless you just wanna cause her some more drama i say leave it alone. i think the huge mistake she made will b punishment enough, so just let her suffer with her stupid, immature actions.
if it really bothers you what she did with the condom, you should talk to her about it otherwise it's just gonna bug u and affect ur relationship.
also, PLEASE DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are WAY to young and don't wanna make the same mistake as ur stupid little friend right??
2007-07-20 05:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by nichole f 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you should talk to your parents (you are young yourself). So they can talk to your friend's parents. Even though your friend is pregnant, she is only 14. And she needs (especially now) guidance from her own parents. Whats done is done and it is not your responsibility to tell about the condom. She needs to take responsibility for that herself. All you should say to her is that she should do the right thing now and own up to it.
I wish all of you well!
Good Luck!
2007-07-20 05:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by HunnieBunnie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, her parents need to know. Having a baby at that age is NOT fun..and that is NOT the way to trap a man. You need to talk with your parents about it. Let someone know.
In the end, everyone will know...you can't hide a baby:(
2007-07-20 05:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by ♥BINK♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your friend made a very un-wise decision, it depends on your friend ship but if i were you id tell some one, only because 14 is way to young to be having a baby.
2007-07-20 05:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
'My friend is 14' 'She wanted a baby' 'She pocked a hole in the condom while the boyfriend wasnt looking'
After reading these sentences i have now lost all hope in all of humanity, especially kids.
Your friend obviously needs direction, and maybe a brain cell.
2007-07-20 05:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
your friend is too young to be pregnant. you are caught in a tight spot. do what you think is best for her.
2007-07-20 05:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋