Men: Would you have approached or started a conversation with you lady if she wasn't phsyically appealing?
Woman: don't you dress up for your mate and complain when you gain 5 pounds? Do you really think he approached you for your personality?
2007-07-19 21:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I believe that initially it's the physical aspects that attracts ..whether it be the body,long legs,beautiful eyes, sweet smile or maybe even in the way one carries themselves...without knowing anything yet about the person what else could it be that drew an attraction but something physical? ... Those who say physical attraction in a relationship doesnt matter have probably forgotten that even an attraction to a smile is of a physical attraction.I think thats where it all starts ..and then you talk and get to know one another on a deeper level ... hearts eventually entwine .. and its at that point that the physical attraction doesn't seem to matter so much (because a deeper connection has been established)
2007-07-19 21:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by Suzan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with an absolutely gorgeous man and he feels the same about me. We have both put on a few pound in the past few years and I still quiver when looks at me and he feels the same way.
Looks attracted us to each other and we are losing the extra few but if for some reason we couldn't it would not affect our relationship in any way. Why? We love each other, body and soul and since a soul is the essence of a human being and he has such a great strong, loving, compassionate and driven to the right thing kind of soul I would love him if he gained 50 more.
As a matter of fact I have been a size 20, 12, 8 and now a 10 and he is just as in to me as ever.
We both agree that you sign on for a certain package and try to maintain that. We both gained having a baby who never sleeps and recognize that we deserved a break and a few extra pounds.
I guess my point is that looks are the smallest part of a relationship and if it is a make or break thing for anyone than leave because you are not with the right one.
2007-07-20 13:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Physical attraction does matter to a certain extent. Everyone finds different things attractive though, and in some cases it isn't necessarily that important. You don't always just approach someone, you could be friends with them for quite a while before and fall for them because of their personality. I've certainly in the past found myself not attracted to someone until I've gotten to know them.
2007-07-20 04:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by WerX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are the first thing you notice about a person, then comes the personality. I have found myself thinking that a person (who I thought was very good looking at first) wasn't as appealing as soon as his bad personality showed up.
2007-07-20 04:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Alexandria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
looks do matter. If you see someone you are attracted too then you'll take a second glance at them, you're interested in them. But if you see a man/woman in the street, just an ordinary person who you feel nothing for cause their looks dont appeal to you, then you wont look at them again.
2007-07-20 04:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by AKRI 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to dress up for my ex...I still dress up but for me..I used to complain by my weight but now I dont..because the weight that Im at...I dont care what other people think. My ex approached me for a few different reasons.
2007-07-20 10:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dani021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely agree with you. People say "love is blind" but I think you HAVE to be attracted to your mate if you want a healthy relationship. Does that mean they have to be drop-dead gorgeous or incredibly handsome?...no, not at all. You just need to find them appealing.
2007-07-20 04:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one thinks that, it is not the most important thing. Look, you cn anything you want, if you want to go out with someone who is ugly then it can be done, more power to you if you can do that, you're a beter person then most.
2007-07-20 06:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say it doesn't matter because they are lying. Sure, it matters more to some, but it matters at least a little bit to the vast majority of people.
2007-07-20 11:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by COLTSfansince1994 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is a guy i really like right now.. not once have i spent more then 5 mintes geting ready and when i say something about its not complaining!! i really like him but i dont think his all that attractive (well he has gorgous eyes!!)
2007-07-20 04:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by Megan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋