First off, I think its helpful to know that im a 22 year old virgin, and over the years, I've learned how to make myself orgasm in less than 5 minutes but the other night, I let my boyfriend of 2 years go down on me for the first time, but when he did, it was more pain then pleasure. It got me to thinking, and I started to wonder if maybe theres something wrong with me due to a few incidents: first is when I went to get a culture exam a couple of months ago, just sticking a tiny cotton swab was extremely un-conformable; also, trying to stick even the lightest teenage tampons is mission impossible (even with the help of my best friend); when I went to get a pap-smear for the first time, my obgyn stuck a spectrum in me and I would imagine is more painful than childbirth (and I still couldnt use a tampon afterwards!) and whenever someone merely touches me near the vaginal area is pretty agonizing.
Is this abnormal?
2007-07-19 19:39:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
this sounds like your vagina is very sensitive so much that when you become nervous the muscle will tense up.you should see your local doctor whocan usaly provide you with some "things" that can help you relax and practice at home. hope this helps
2007-07-19 19:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by samanthaw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is abnormal. It should maybe be uncomfortable to have the vaginal exam but NOt that painful. Were you really tensed and that made it hurt?? I wondered that but with all the other sensitivities, I thought not.. Your GYN really needs to address this issue with you and exam you more. None of that should hurt that bad. Just be honest and tell him/her--they have heard it all, I promise you. See your Dr. and Good Luck.. I am sorry you are having so much trouble, I really hope you can get some answers soon.
2007-07-19 19:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by MeMeCindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you orgasm are you only touching your clitoris? Becase it's much higher up. The other symptoms are not normal. Please see your regular doctor, or a gynecologist. Something is not right. Hopefully it's just some sort of infection, or something you need a special cream for. I just googled "shingles in vagina?", and YES it could be shingles, which is one of the most painful temporary illness. Get to a doctor. :)
2007-07-19 19:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abnormal...in a way. Most women don't have it. Talk to your gynocolgist you may have a partially imperforated hymen and/or vulvar vestibulitis. If it is a partially imperforated hymen, it can be fixed with very very minor surgery. I do not know too much about vulvar vestibulitis but I have given you an article on it below.
2007-07-19 20:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by Androgyny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm additionally very gentle, i like to be touch circuitously from the actual, all women folk could be dealt with very gently down there. gentle and heat tongues and company lips are welcome. some human beings are grasp at doing this.
2016-10-19 06:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you relaxed during all of that? Because being tense might be the reason. Other than that I've got no clue.
2007-07-19 19:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no this is common
perhaps you are too tense. not comfortable.would definetly see your obgyn. but i have read that people who in some way who were abused or perhaps have some issue have this problem
2007-07-19 19:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by yakitismak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be feeling pain. You really need to cal your gyno and tell her what is going on. Good Luck!
2007-07-19 19:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like vaginismus , spelled incorrectly of course. have you been sexually abused? thats a common symptom. I would talk to a therapist
2007-07-19 19:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel Green 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not normal. Please talk to your doctor about this issue. It sounds like you might have vulvar vestibulitis or another form of a pain condition called vulvodynia. To learn more about vulvodynia please check out: http://www.vulvarhealth.org
2007-07-19 22:03:25 · answer #10 · answered by sokokl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋