2007-07-19 19:22:48 · 13 answers · asked by einar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There could be some psychological reasons. There could be medical reasons. She might want to talk to a professional. You might want to take a look at this book. http://www.achristiansexsite.com/husband/?gclid=COKFhYXZtI0CFR6AWAodrUzezw It may help or shed some light on some things. Good luck.
2007-07-19 19:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Second Hand Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"not interested in sex with me or anyone"? sounds like you suggested sex with other people as well. some people are open to this. others are not so. if this disinterest in sex happened after u suggested group orgy and your wife is not interested, then maybe that could be the reason. you would also have to consider the wife having vaginismus. it is when there's not enough vaginal fluids produced even after foreplay or stimulation w/c would make fornication painful hence the loss of interest. there are a few positions that you both could do w/c could lessen the pain during sex. a good amount of lubricant is also useful. for better understanding, google it. hope this helps
2007-07-20 02:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey try seduction. You seduce her. I do not mean by saying do you wanna. Make her want you. I do not understand why you would be concerned about her NOT wanting others. You should NOT want her to want others.
Now get her alone with no distractions. Play something sexy on the radio or a CD she likes. Safely light some vanilla, Lilac, or what ever fragrant candle she likes. SET the mood for her but it has to be a pleasant smell for you both.
Shower with her or give her a bath if the tub is big enough for you both. Wash her hair slowly but do not get soap in her eyes. (Big turn off). Touch her in a teasing way that makes her moan. Do not talk to each other. Only touch, smell and taste involved here. When your done in the bathe and all is clean, dry her slowly and do not miss any part of her body when drying. Have her spread her legs and dry ALL parts.
Move to the music naked while running the back part of your hand over her back while kissing her. Make her feel she is THE only thought in your head. (as she should be)
It is all about her and not so much you so ignore your erection.
Once you get to the bed, floor, kitchen counter or where ever she says LETS get IT ON at....try not to force yourself to make it quick. Make it last. Seduce her long enough to make her aroused and passion burst into flames. Keep going with the seduction.
Woman miss having foreplay in a relationship. It never last long enough and then he falls asleep.
GOOD LUCK to YOU BOTH.
2007-07-20 02:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by Southern Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doctor, doctor, doctor!!! There are many reasons for this and most of them are not good. Most though can be treated. Hormones play a big part and there is therapy for that as well. Start with the physical and if they can not find anything at all then it could be depression. Good luck and hold on. when she comes out of it, you might have a hard time keeping up with her!!!
2007-07-20 03:00:22 · answer #4 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be because she's stressed, overworked, tired, or even feeling unattractive? All of these could be reasons for no interest. Depression also can play a part in not having interest.
2007-07-20 02:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by latenightowl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First. figureout she is cheating on u
Second, change up things in relationship do something
out of the ordinary.
Third, get self back in shape or change current habit
Lastly, before u do any of steps read some books on sex
and watchs some tapes but don't get caught
2007-07-20 02:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by sandmang8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her talk to her doctor. There are pills that can help the sexual drive for women now. If she doesn't like the idea of taking medications, tell her to try the health food store. They can recommend some vitiamins that might help.
2007-07-20 02:27:29 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do the dishes without being asked make her dinner draw a bath for her, give her a good massage i mean a good one with candles and oil not one of those 5 minute things you guys do then give her the best oral you can give. do this once a week and i guarantee you'll get laid
2007-07-20 02:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by sweet young thing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how old she.she could be going through early menopause. also she needs to see if anything is going on. she might need added help with hormones . But!!! do have her see a doctor.
2007-07-20 02:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by wolfwhisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i help u. my husband is also not interested in sex with me. i guess we can help each other. IM me if u free now. i need to chat with someone.
2007-07-20 02:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋