Yah..i love having sex with the same woman forever and working my butt off and dealing with kids.
It's also so cool how she's able to blow money on cool things. I love that part the most.
Life couln't be better.
But you know what the absolute best part is?
Pretending to like it....yah thats the best part.
2007-07-19 18:43:25 · 23 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way....I'm just being honest here. And I complain about EVERYTHING.
but my focus is on marriage now.
By the way...I'm no sizzy. I can complain all I wan't. I earned it.
2007-07-19 18:49:02 · update #1
There can be no happiness if the things we believe in are different from the things we do.
Everyone needs to decide for themselves what they believe in and live by it. Some people believe in marriage, some don't. Some people believe in Christianity, some don't. Be firm in what you believe in, live it - and you will be happy.
Flavio, you can complain all you want...I will listen. When you are done you are welcome to relax in the pool.
2007-07-19 19:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me address each of your comments seperately.
Sex with the same partner...I love sex with my husband. It's never predictable, nor is it boring. Flavor is the spice of life...getting bored ---try sex toys, porn, screwing in a public park in the rain. If you are bored, your spouse will be too. Married sex is very exciting if you allow it to be.
Working your butt off ---your gonna work your butt off either way. Might as well have a little booty benefit for the effort.
Dealing with kids ---this is the best part about marriage. My kids are my world --and a direct reflection of my husband. True happiness is having your little one's arms wrapped snuggly around your neck while whispering, "I love you momma!!"
It's cool how she blows the money--------men spend as much -be honest about that!
The only thing I pretend about in my marriage is the occassional fake orgasm when I am tired from sitting up on yahoo answers all night long!
2007-07-20 02:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Tired_Of_Sarcasm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's take this in small bites, shall we?
Sex with the same woman forever? You see, Flavio, when two people get to know one another in deep erotic detail - sharing their fantasies and turn-ons - the sex gets fantastic.
Unless you're partner is just so boring and plain vanilla (and even vanilla sex is fine), they offer to do most anything you like. I could go into detail here, but then someone would get their thong in a knot and report it.
Working your butt off? That's something that any self-respecting man ought to do ANYWAY!
I'm just saying, whether you're married or single, taking pride in your work is what life is all about. It always worked for me. I always made good $$ because my quality and quantity were evident.
Dealing with kids? Why'd you spawn them in the first place? What were you thinking? Or, weren't you??
Blow money on "cool things?" Hell, Flavio, that's another one of life's little joys; going shoppin for sexy clothes, lingerie, shoes, toys, etc. I love to spend money. Doesn't everyone?
Pretending to like all that stuff.
Yah. That's pretty hard, man...
2007-07-20 08:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You said a few things here that I really don't like.
First, why not "make love" to her instead of have sex with her?
She can learn to spend money wisely instead of crazy. I mean there are stores like the dollar stores and thrift stores that she could spend money at or else get a job and help out with the expenses.
The other thing that you said that I don't care for is...you are pretending to like it. Are you just playing house or what? You know things could be a lot worse than they really are.
2007-07-20 01:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Glad to hear that you have a wonderful marriage, but are you postitive that pretending is the best way to deal with it? Yes, life could be better when you stop pretending and live with the fact that it won't help in the end.
2007-07-20 01:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Krinta 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa! What's it gonna take to turn THAT attitude around? You better find an answer or divorce is going to be the absolutely best best part and then you'll really screw up your life.
Start counseling or SOMETHING. You could end up being one of those guys who kills his whole family and then himself. You've got to talk it out with somebody. Help is what you need and all you have to do is ask for it.
2007-07-20 01:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Babs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like there is a lack of communication in your relationship and that it's been that way from the start. If you can tell your wife what you like and don't like when making love to her then maybe you should try it with your everyday relationship with her. If not, all I can say is keep on pretending as it is to late for you.
2007-07-20 01:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by woodfrogtaz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your that unhappy then why don't you get out or make it better. Your living a lie and forcing her to go along with it. Are you doing her some kind of favor by pretending? Dont' you both deserve better?
2007-07-20 01:48:45 · answer #8 · answered by sara r 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a very interesting prospective from the male's viewpoint. No need to criticize the honest opinions of another!
2007-07-20 02:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, that can't be good. what don't you like? the work you put in is the reward you get out of it.
it's just a bump in the road. you have got it good---a woman who will stand by your side and a beautiful family. don't be discouraged. it could be worse.
what would you do without those loved ones?
2007-07-20 01:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋