well my bff and i are fighting right now because i have come close to going all the way with my bf (we've dated about 2 years)..since i told her i came close she calls me a ho and tells me that i have changed a lot..(which i haven't) and that i don't go to church and i'm not saved (which i do and i am) ...but she goes around school telling guys that she drinks all the time and her and her bf (they've been dating 6 months) have had phone/ computer sex and is constantly talking about how big her boobs are...but she calls me the ho! what can i do?
2007-07-19 18:42:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ya some friend you have.........shes mad cuz your gona get laid before she is. i know that was a rude answer but it could be the truth. shes not your friend tell her to(well use yor imagination) and quit talking to her
2007-07-19 18:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by loyal 2 tha bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think she is a good friend and is a hypocrite. if u two cant get along u should stop being friends. u r not a ho if u have sex w/ ur bf. if u have sex w/ a bunch of guys and have only flings, no relationships, and ur cheater then u r a ho. but u r not a ho. she's entitled to her opinion and u r too. u dont need to listen to her. u two could try to agree to just agree to not talk about those type of things and let each other do what they want or just dont be friends.
2007-07-19 18:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bff that friends should be able to share their feelings with each other without fear of judgement. Tell her that having phone and computer sex is against her religion also. It is up to you when to decide to have sex. Although I would not suggest having se# at your age, I can certainly see why two people that have dated for 2 years would be feeling those type of feelings for each other.
People grow apart sometimes. I suggest that there is another reason for her anger, however. You should definitely have a talk with her in private, to give each of you the opportunity to air your feelings.
2007-07-19 18:53:16 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she isn't a real bff, you should talk to her and ask her why she has double standers. About the sex thing make Sher that are really ready and if you are not you bf first he should get tested and use birth control. I think sex should wait until marriage or until after high school (to many babies having babies). Besides sex is better in your 20's take my word for it.
2007-07-19 19:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to worry about her own personal issues, and if you guys are gonna be friends, NEITHER of you can pass judgement. All you can do is offer advise and hope whatever your friend does makes them happy. Sounds like the chick is drama, but she could just be jealous. Envy is an ugly thing and maybe she is letting it jade her. I always liked the saying, "You are the company you keep." Good luck.
2007-07-19 18:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by ihti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont come back with any of her remarks like "hoe", that only makes you obnoxious and immature sounding too. but i say that she is acting like no friend of yours saying stuff like that. give her the cold shoulder for a while; if she asks why, confront her about it being stupid and not right at all of her to do that, and dont just let it slide otherwise it will just happen again; maybe even a lot worse.
2007-07-19 18:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want me to be honest then let me tell you she isn't a true friend. I suggest finding a new one. Sorry if this doesn't help, but it's reality and she doesn't sound like the type of friend you need. Goodluck! =]
2007-07-19 18:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is sick just live her.she says all this coz she thinks that u have gone far from her coz of ur bf.so give her some time & stay with her or else make her mingle.
2007-07-19 18:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous. I promise. Think about it.
2007-07-19 18:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jethro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her. if she is you bff, she will get the picture.
2007-07-19 18:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by Brian D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋