I go often to this salsa music nightclub. why do women hate me? I like dancing but none wants to dance with me

Question

they all give excuses.

Answer 1

you might be too drunk too dance
you don't know how to dance
you hurt ladies' arms when you attempt to lead
you stink (eww..)
they have a bf with them
they are too tired to dance
you're too good for them
they don't know how to dance
...

Answer 2

You may go to the salsa clubs but how do you dance and where have you learned. If it is hard to follow your lead it will go around the club very quick. I have seen many men pouring sweat that get lots of girls to dance with but if you can't dance forget it. Take lessons at the club you go to or go to a club that offers lessons. It will also help not to be picky by only asking a select few girls to dance. Some girls feel the same way as you and so they don't get enough practice to dance. I will go out of my way to dance with a girl that is sitting for a long time to give her some self confidence and help her work through her steps.

Answer 3

It's impossible to tell from the information you gave why women don't like to dance with you. Common possibilities are:
- you pull on their arms instead of leading
- you forgot to use deodorant
- you're doing the helicopter movement with your hands all the time and making her do that too.

Stay away from cologne. Some people may be allergic to it, some don't want to smell like your cologne by the end of the dance.

Answer 4

they dont hate, if it was the case you would not get excuses, but slaps...
If you like dancing, go get some lessons, may be you really dont know how to dance salsa,
and when you really master your art, get on that dance floor and move tat #**!
Ohhh! one last tip, try using Colognes....

Answer 5

I don't know you but maybe because you are too forward, or you suck at dancing, or you're weird?