my angels told me we would meet and be very happy his b-day is 4-19-53 and mine is 3-11-59 were we even compatable?
2007-07-19 18:19:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For a marriage to be successful, it should be decided and worked out by the couple themselves. Dates cannot solve problems in a happy marriage - love, care and understanding can.
Trust yourself more than those dates.
2007-07-19 18:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by JP E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shirleykins
No offense, but I have seen marriages from India, and there is no man culturally obligated to make his wife happy. This man was very clever to get into your brain, and it sounds like a great pickup line..I'll use it sometime to get my lady into bed.
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Anyways, back to the angel whisperer. Lady, you sound genuinely disillusioned, and I'm sorry your angels seemed to have "let you down". Sometimes, these angels are imaginations of those we wish would help and guide us. Sometimes, perhaps they are not. Maybe, the angels did not say how long you would be happy for? So, they were right..you were happy.
On the question of compatibility. It's very complicated with humans. First, there's hardcore chemistry at work..unseen pheromones with little codes and signals which only a compatible and prospective mate can interpret. No need to talk someone into something if it's a hot attraction.
Second, there's the human mind with all its experiences, and even hangups. Even so, you might be a 100% compatible, but then there are the nogos! No goes are the things which destroy relationships.
It usually has to do with respect, and if disrespect starts ruling a relationship, there would not be a long-term compatibility even if angels say and sex be great.
Why? People decide over their actions. The two of you decided stuff, so now the two of you have to deal with your reality. This would be the true test of your compatibility...can you deal gracefully with your reality, the one you both created?
Kindness
2007-07-19 18:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by justaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have here is a royal break down in communication mixed with your wife thinking the grass is greener on the other side. You both can attend counseling until the cows come home but if you both don't work together as couple (TEAM) your marriage will be doomed no matter what you do. What was her independence need to move out? Sounds to me like your wife is a bit of a puppet that have her friends pulling her strings. She needs to be encouraged by you to move herself and the children back home. Assure her that she can keep her new found employment and the children can stay in daycare but if she truly loves you encourage her to come back home. By the time she pays for daycare, gas, shelter, food, utilities ----she'll have no paycheck to live on. DAYCARE will eat up most of anything she makes! At least by moving back home she can cut some of her expenses and still keep her new found freedom of earning $$$$. DAYCARE is expensive----roughly $150-200 per child. Maybe she should list out the real reasons for leaving in the 1st place. She is using you to blame ----where the feelings she is expressing should be about her and blaming NO ONE! The struggles she's having within herself should be a marital team effort to find some peace and understanding and not put a breach between the two of you. TALK, TALK, and more TALK.....start opening your ears up and really LISTEN to what you're wife is saying and telling you. She's crying out to be heard! And look----it's working ---see all the negative attention she's getting?
2016-04-01 03:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man from India said something to me about compatability that may be more relavant than calendar dates and angel prophecies: He said Americans look for a mate they can be happy with, but Indians concentrate on making the mate they have, happy. What a concept! grin
2007-07-19 18:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It too late, I have already hooked up with your ex and there is no going back. Well, now you know why he broke up with you!
2007-07-19 18:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you need to talk to him not us or angels.
only you 2 know what happened.
2007-07-19 18:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by princessfionafantasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha don't know what they told you exactly but what i know is that GOD only can change situation....just ask him in prayer who's gonna be your future husband
2007-07-19 19:02:10 · answer #7 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world are you talking about???
2007-07-23 16:45:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to consult yourself and not some chart. it's impossible to tell your future.
2007-07-19 18:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by mizz lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are we supposed to be psychic or something?
2007-07-19 18:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by ((♫♥♪♫♥♪♫ Shivers ♫♥♪♫♥♪)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋