2007-07-19 18:11:43 · 16 answers · asked by fatandsmooth 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce. I deal by helping others to deal with it.
2007-07-19 18:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My Mom was killed by her cardiologist last summer during an unnecessary procedure for which she was not physically prepared to endure and also for which she did not provide consent NOR did she have legal capacity to consent.
To top it off, the doctor requested an autopsy because he "just didn't know what happened" even though he knew @#$% well what happened as evidenced by the results of the autopsy. That would be the interview conducted with him BEFORE the autopsy began. EVERYTHING was removed. EVERYTHING.
And just to really make it a happy experience for my family, the hospital "lost" the paperwork for the autopsy and my Mom laid in a hospital bed for a day. We found out from the funeral home when they called to say "where's Mom?" Do you know what happens to a person in that situation? Then my 83 year old devastated Dad had to go through the whole consent process again.
Obviously, I'm not dealing with it. However, what makes me feel better is the process I am going through to have his license (and my Mom's internist's license) at least censured if not completely revoked in two states. After that we'll file a lawsuit and when we win we are going to start a foundation to keep bad doctors from happening to good people.
If you want names and locations of said Doctors, e me and I'll provide.
2007-07-20 02:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by MollyUSA 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The loss of several miscarriages before having my children. I had no problems conceiving, but, would lose baby between 8 & 14 weeks. I had one loss that was later. A little boy. I lost 8 before having 2 wonderful daughters, then, lost another before having my last 2 children. There are times that are really hard still. I hear certain songs, or certain dates just bring me to my knees. Though I have had other children, it did not change the hopes and plans that I had made for the little ones that I carried. Every one had a date of conception, a date to be expected, and, a dream. We wanted desperately to have children, and, by the grace of God finally we do, but, I still think of the ones that I had to let go. The only way to deal with it, is prayer. And, holding my wonderful blessings.
2007-07-20 01:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda h 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The loss of my mother in 2004. I talked to her everyday, then it was over, she was only 60. Took me a long time . Time puts a scab on all wounds...but it never heals completely. I still miss her and ache for her. I had been divorced and thought that was painful, but nothing compares to a loss of life of a family member.
2007-07-20 01:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Glinda W 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My mother was murdered by her boyfriend when I was 4yrs old. I was 4 but I still remember when the police came to my grandmas house and I ran to the bathroom crying, shortly after I went to live with my father and step-mother and that was not easy cause she was jealous and hated me...very abusive mentally and physically for 16yrs...I am 27 and married with 2 children and it still hurts because my mothers murder was never solved, they know who did it, he did it in the day light at her place of employment in front of witnesses but he fled....its been 23yrs and I have been working with a PI to see if she can help locate the man since the Police Dept. is not actively doing anything.........I have not been able to deal with it, I am still very emotionally distraught and even more now that I have my own children and I have a daughter of my own and I could not imagine life without them....yet I had to live mine without my mother...
2007-07-20 01:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Losing my husband to another woman. I have never felt such pain. It's like losing 1/2 of myself.
Dealing with it? Well, I still am. I'm in counseling. I try to keep busy. I exercise. I pray a whole lot. I'm trying to learn to be a "me" instead of a "we". Mostly, I pray and pour my heart out to God. He always listens and gives me comfort. Without Him I wouldn't be making it through. That's the truth.
2007-07-20 05:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dating about 2 million guys and then finding the love of my dreams in my 30's and finding out he was an abuser. Still trying to get it out of my system.
2007-07-20 01:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My mom bailed on us when I was 12 - haven't seen her since. I try to be thankful for what I DO have instead of what I don't. My dad is great, and I have a wonderful husband and two beautiful girls. You just have to play the cards you're dealt.
2007-07-20 01:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
when your husband cheats on you and his girlfriend calls you and tell u the week of your grandmother's death and then wishes u dead i have to get a grip on myself because my grandmother was very close to me iwas in and out of the hospital months before this recovery from having a baby and 2 other surgery i had to ask the lord to guide me for real i like to been in jail
2007-07-20 03:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by aleasha1977 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Losing my first husband to a drunk driver. I have always dealt with it by taking it one day at a time.
2007-07-20 01:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋