He just never really talks about anything ...kind of like our marriage is a business Relationship....
2007-07-19 18:03:35 · 10 answers · asked by Lori K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd love to know the answer to this one gentlemen! I have the same problem. I feel more like a "friend" roommate than anything. Yet, when I ask him about it, he says everything is fine, I worry to much????? Lazy or what??
2007-07-19 18:08:48 · answer #1 · answered by kimmy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun, just because you are the type that might compliment people or be expressive about what you are thinking and feeling, doesn't mean everyone around you is the same way...he may have been brought up in a family that wasn't expressive - not to mention that many men are brought up to believe that discussing things like that is not "masculine"...
more than likely he shows his love for you in different ways...maybe in a more materialistic way...or he feels that by providing a good home for his family is the way to express that he is happy in the marriage.
If he didn't compliment you before you married, you can't expect him to start just because you would like him to...if he used to and has now stopped, you may want to consider marriage counseling.
2007-07-20 01:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is taking you for granted like you are just a picture on the wall he sees it everyday but never looks at it. I can only tell you why my husband was doing the same as yours is doing.My husband was to busy with work and someone from his job. She was given him what i was not and that was telling him what a wonderful person he was and how good he looked and how lucky i was to have him. So he left me for her even though she was 10 years older unattractive and marked up body.She was feeding him all that bull shi t and he fell for it. I'm telling you this because he is telling you something and you better find out what it is before he comes home one day from work and tells you he is leaving you.
2007-07-20 02:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is normal. My husband is the same. Men see things different. I asked my husband the same question about 3months ago, he said he didnt realize and he does other things to show love, like make me a bath w/ candles, cooking dinner (he cooks everyday) he cleans, does the laundry. I am lucky, he is sweet, but it is so easy for women to insecure, we need alot of verbal reassurance.
2007-07-20 01:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
By the way, have you ever complimented him for anything he does.You did not, so he did not. Try starting to compliment him and he will definitely compliment you on your doings not immediately but he will after some time.
2007-07-20 01:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by draddkmd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like things went stale. Start taking better care of yourself, get some friends or intrests outside of the marriage (no cheating) so that you become more interesting to him. He'll come after you.
2007-07-20 01:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by RAVEN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that, It sounds like you'd like to be closer and need more companionship out of this relationship. You should express that to him.
2007-07-20 01:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by sara r 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes just not into you anymore, when you show him love does he accept it or kinds just brushes you off
2007-07-20 01:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you ever notice how much you whine about everything?
maybe he does.
2007-07-20 01:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by gen. patton 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋
idk, naybe he doesnt like anything anymore. have you changed? do you keep up the house and your looks?
2007-07-20 02:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by princessfionafantasy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋