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i been married for 7 years. after we got married we moved to live with the family of my wife to take care of her mom. her family never liked me cuz my wife she didnt told them when we married.since i moved to live with her family my life turn upside down iam sick most of the time. i lost every thing money friends family.am not the same person any more.alot of things happend that i cant explain.nobody like me any more ,i cant remember the last time i smile.my sister belive that her family did black magic to me. how i can be sure of such a thing like that done to me.and how i can resolve this proplem.my wife from philippin and my sister told me they are good in this things.

2007-07-19 18:01:01 · 7 answers · asked by life-suck 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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If you are unhappy in the relationship walk away and get out of it.

2007-07-19 18:11:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

People often 'program' themselves to think that bad things are happening- they come to think they have been cursed, or their horoscope persuades them this is a bad day, etc.

Sometimes, creating your own good luck ritual helps.

For example...

Take a pot about 1/2 full of water and put it on to boil. Water is the foundation of all life. It can flush away poisons and restores our souls.

Add a pinch of salt and make a positive comment about yourself and your life. Add several more pinches and comments. Salt is a great cleanser. It enhances flavors and is hostile to bad things like germs.

Add a fresh egg- more if you need it. Eggs are a symbol of new life, fresh starts, getting rid of a bad history and starting over. Bring the water, salt, and egg(s) to a boil, then let simmer for a minute or so. Cover the pan and turn off the heat.

Sit down for a few minutes and make a plan for your life. What are some small but meaningful things you can do starting tomorrow to change things? Where do you want to be in a week? in a month? In six months? in a year? How can you get there?

Don't make this a long list- keep it simple and doable.

When the list is done, crack and peel the egg(s). As you throw out the shells, throw out a bad habit, a bad thought, or a bad memory at the same time.

Sprinkle the egg(s) lightly with a small pinch of salt to symbolize the purity of your new life, and your resolve to do things right and eat the eggs while looking at the list. As you eat the eggs, take the list ideas in and make them yours, make them real within you.

Wash everything to make a clean break, and prepare to move in in your life.





Notice, it is NOT the egg or salt or water that is important- it is what you think and do. The rest is just symbol and ceremony. Symbols and ceremonies are often important in our lives.

2007-07-22 22:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by Madkins007 7 · 0 0

You've given over control of yourself to your wife but it has nothing to do with magic.
Start thinking for yourself again. Make decisions based on what makes sense instead of what will keep her from being angry. Make choices based on what will make you happy without hurting others. If this leads to divorce then so be it. It's not worth it to live in misery for the rest of your life.
Learn that happiness is not in the big things of life it's in the small pleasures, like the feel of the sun on your face. Get out of the house and go to the park, swing in a swing. Force the bad feelings out.
Good Luck.

2007-07-20 01:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by amistere4u 3 · 0 0

Dude, you should try to get a good paying job and get out of this rut. I think you are in deep trouble ever since you moved into your wife's home to look after your mother in law. I think you have not solemnised your marriage before your wife's relatives. If that is the problem still you should try to move out and find a job for yourself earn some money and then try to woo your wife into your quarters and if possible try to make your wife also work if she is interested and then things will work out.

2007-07-20 01:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by draddkmd 2 · 0 0

I don't believe that such a thing even exists, so no, I don't think you've been affected by it. You sound depressed. It happens to many, many people. There is help, with counseling and/or medication. Talk to God. He always listens and He is mightier than any "black magic".

2007-07-20 05:28:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

LOL...do u believe in that stuff? I seen on TV the other day, it will only work on those who believe....good escape goat though, i think u need to own up for all that has happened in ur life..u can not change what u do not acknowledge...own up things will get better

2007-07-20 01:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. J 2 · 0 0

if you do believe in this kind of stuff then i am sure you will find whatever way to clear this spell that has been cast upon you........but my advice would simply be to move out of her house and get your own.

2007-07-20 01:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by mr b 4 · 0 0

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