I'm unhappy and I don't know why. I'm so bored with life. I'm bored with my job. I hate everything. This guy that I really, truly, like, will not do anything with me(like take me on dates or give me a serious relationship)...he will only text message me and bother me everyday, spend time at my house and sleep with me!!!!!! I feel so used. I want so much more. It's killing me. I don't know what to do. I think I love the bastard. Everything else in my life sucks. He's the only thing I want. What is the matter with me?!! I'm 23! Why am like this still? I've been like this since I was 19. (with guys problems like this in the past) Help.
2007-07-19 17:40:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, maybe a "sexy" little makeover would help him fall for you! =<)
2007-07-19 17:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi...you seem to be really upset. i think you really have to start from within. you have to learn to be still and give yourself time to think. Feel free. feel good. it's all up in the mind. Stop, think, evaluate, and take control. about your guy, i think it's about time that you make him see that you're confident of who you are, not so bothered if he will date you or not, accomplish something big that you'll be really proud of, do things that you like best, develop new skills, join interesting groups, be very efficient in your workplace...i think through these things your guy will start to think that YOU ARE "SOMEONE"! and remember that if you always show other people that you're messed up, bored, unhappy, most likely people will see you as someone easy to use, easy to manipulate....but if you start to build something for yourself like i've mentioned above, people will start to respect you since you're showing them that you have direction and fulfillment, that you're happy and cool... and above all don't forget to pray...prayer is one of the sources of strength and wisdom of great men and women in history...:) have a bright day....
2007-07-20 01:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by ColdARMS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy isnt worth your time...as for you job, and everything else...it is because this guy that you hate all that stuff...You need to get a guy that likes you and truely appreciates you for who you are not what he can get out of you....seriously dump this guy and start going out on weekend with your girls and who knows...you just might find mr right.
2007-07-20 00:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to college, get started on a real life and stop obsessing over guys. In the end, men do not really care at all about your dreams, goals or life.
2007-07-20 00:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by sashali 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you feel used by him dump him he isnt doing anything for you so that obviously means he isnt passionate about you so i say dump him.
also about the being bored thing
change your life you dont like it what do you like to do what is your dream job
find out what iit is and then look it up online and find out what the first steps are go for it only you can change your life
2007-07-20 00:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer comes with batteries,
no just kidding.
The only way to get from a shitty place is to climb. You see something you want to be well you gotta climb there.
2007-07-20 01:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋