I lost my virginity today... Im 16.. Ive been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and i know he loves me.... but i gave into the pressure of society.. He didnt pressure me. Hes always told me its my choice.. But i cant believe i did it.. He didnt go in all the way. but everone is telling me this means ive lost my virginty... Ive never been one to give in like this:( Anyone else had a similar sitaution regretting it? Or is 16 actually a common age.. I know alot of people my age who have been having sex for 2 years.. Yes i was protected im on BC.
2007-07-19 16:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Don't feel horrible..........don't have regrets.............because at one time, its what you really wanted
dont worry......as long as your protected, your fine
if you have a big thing against sex, like, you're a BIG christian, dont worry.......i go through the SAME THINGS
2007-07-19 17:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
hey there you obviously have some strong feelings for this guy or you would not have done it. Do not feel bad!!! I lost my virginity when i was 16 and i felt really guilty. I know you would think that a guy would just be like "whatever". But no. I did feel guilty. But now that you have opened up that gate to a more intimate relationship, you would be taking a step back in the relationship if you decided to not do it again. But it is totally up to you. If you feel like you are not ready, then you are not ready. I am trying to find the words to give you the best advice as possible. Well the girl i lost it to, i told her that i did not want to do it anymore, i took her virginity as well, and i think it really hurt her. I feel bad now, i ended up breaking up with her. I wish that i would have been more mature and caring for her. But i really hope that i could help.
2007-07-20 00:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, no, you're not a virgin. As long as he was in, even half way....he still penetrated you and therefore, you're not a virgin. 16 is actually becoming more common. Don't beat yourself up over it. What's done is done and there's no point in worrying or stressing over it. If being a virgin was/is a big deal to you, then make a commitment now not to do it again until whenever you decide...marriage or older or whatever. You can't get your virginity back, but you don't have to give up and have sex again and again if you don't want to.
2007-07-20 00:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you guys messed around a bit, but your virginity may still be intact. Take this situation as an opportunity to think about what you want.
Hey losing your virginity isnt a big thing. Everyone says it is. You just open a gateway in which you learn to make decisions and grow up.
Just dont make any stupid choices and best of luck.
2007-07-20 00:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren N 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my first time i was barely 17, and he went in all the way, like we actually had sex.
Technically you have lost your virginity, but technically you havent had sex yet.
2007-07-20 00:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Single again 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
add me on yahoo messenger im 16/f/ky or email me
teenwitch09@yahoo.com
2007-07-20 00:03:53 · answer #6 · answered by mel bell 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just dont do it again until your comfortable
2007-07-20 00:07:50 · answer #7 · answered by kina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋