How to make this huge decision and suggestions?

Question

need help making this difficult decision. I am now living with my parents again because I just got away from my creepy stalkerish sick whate ver you want to call it roommate. So you have nowhere else to go, noone else to live with, and you don't want to live alone. And you really don't want to live with your parents because you won't get to socialize as much but rather be isolated and jobless.

Suggestions?? I'll post more details.

Well my roommate who's 26(the one that treats me like I'm stupid, plays peeping tom(read my previous question)) never tells me stuff until the extreme last minute like about rent amount and if a guy is moving in. So the other day I had no idea that a former drug addict guy moved in until I saw his stuff. She called me a b***h and selfish for freaking out. So I've been at my parents' for awhile now. I haven't talked with my other roommate. I just find the guy suspicious, he wanted a place to stay and claims he has no where else to go. Bull!

Anyway so the next day I called up 26yr old and she asked me if I want to move to a new place with her if this guy doesn't move out.

I told her I'd think about it. So what do you think? Here's a list of what she does:

1. she treats you like a little kid and a stupid retard even though you know you are not and noone else thinks that you are retarded (and ur 22)
2.Whenever you guys fight she calls up your mom and apologizes even though they aren't close
3. she plays peeping tom even though she lives with you. For example:
a) she sees you in the kitchen so she stands at the door(with window) and watches you which scares the heck out of you. b) when you wait outside for a ride with your mom, she stands outside and just stares at you until she leaves(which is up to an hour)

I mean who in the heck would do the stuff she does?? What would you do if you were in my shoes? Help please!

Side note: First and third person change, I posted what I posted in other answers and to my friends to make the typing go faster(copy paste)

Answer 1

It doesn't matter why she does the things she does. You have to do what's best for you, which seems to be choosing to not live with her again. Even though you said you don't want to live alone, that is what I would do, at least until I found another roommate that I liked and trusted. (Personally, I don't know how anyone could stand to live with a roommate...)

Good luck.

Answer 2

Sharing apartment with others definitely comes with challenges. Have you noticed how your parents got along with each other and their children (you included) in the same house? Basically you cannot stay with another person whom you have nothing in common with. Every human being has his or her own foibles. Some are tolerable while some are not. If you cannot tolerate someone's habit or behaviour then you better not stay with the person. That goes for finding the right spouse.

Answer 3

You are obviously a bad judge of character. to compound this, You also seem to make a lot of bad decision's on Your own. even when You know how these people are, You insist on following through, anyway. stop taking the first opportunity that comes along and, do a little research. I moved away from home when, I was 16. You would think that someone in their early to mid twenties, would be a little bit more mature and, take a little more responsibility for their own decisions. You seem to depend on Your parents a little too much to be worried about independence, anyway. I would recommend staying at home where it is safe and, losing a little independence, until You are old enough and, mature enough to make rational decision's.

Answer 4

Wow - you went from the fist person to the second and then back to the first person and then you just went on and on and on about some 26 year old whacked out stalker... and then I just got lost (and bored).

Here's my simple answer - change your cell phone number, find a new room mate and never speak to this person again. Done.