my big cuz raped me when i was 7 and he just did it again and this time i might be pregnant no one will bilive me because he is suposed to be a little angel what do i do!!!!!
2007-07-19 15:14:59 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
tell your grandparents and your parents, if you are pregnant and they don't believe you take a DNA test and tell the police about your cousin
i am sorry this happend to you
2007-07-19 15:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that happened to you. There are a couple of things you could do. you could call the police but they'll need proof. You could tell your parents of course theyi'll believe you but if they want proof aswell go to the hospital and get a rape kit. If you dont feel comfortable doing that and you are pregnant (get a pregnency test) you can do a DNA test on your baby!!!!! If you bare pregnant dont have an abortion. If you dont want it put it up for adoption. Also if ur pregnant and your worried about having defects as of incests!! dont worry inless you have a disablitiy in ur family your basby want have anything wrong with it!!! GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE IT TURNS OUT OKAY!!!
2007-07-19 15:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. Dad, brother, cousin, and all who do this should be put in prison. Did you know that people like him never stop raping? You do not say how old you are. That should not matter. Call the police and then, discuss it with your family; parents or whoever. Do not let anyone talk you out of reporting this. He will hurt and hurt and hurt so many. STOP HIM NOW. Do not talk to anyone before calling the police because they may attempt to talk you out of filing a report. Do you want others to suffer as you? Call 211 and get phone numbers or organization who have been where you are.
2007-07-19 15:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell your dad. Tell a male. Tell a male within your family that will listen. If they don't listen then tell your grandparents especially if your pregnant because you are more important then that guy. I wish stuff like this didn't happen especially from a big cuz which, sounds like a big scuz, I know I can't tell you not feel awkward or embarrassed because I know it must be devistating but have courage and find help. If it keeps happening call the police and it is possible that they can have their doctors do a DNA test to check if there is any evidence in the form of sperm that could be brought against your cousin.
2007-07-19 15:22:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dan 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell your parents whether you are pregnant or not, they need to know what's going on. You should also call the cops and file some type of report on his sorry a**. You need to find proof, he can't get away with this! He deserves the worst for doing what he did to you, what a piece of sh** he is, he should be sent to jail and someone should make him his girlfriend.
Sweetie, talk to your parents, they need to know, do everything you can to make them believe you. I hope he never does this again, but if he ever does, immediately after call the cops, don't let him threaten you, he's just doing it so that he way he won't get in trouble and so that he can get away with it, and keep doing it. Once it's all out in the open, he won't be able to hurt you again, he will get what he deserves. Scumbags that do that to women should have the privates cut off.
Once again, talk to your parents, they should know what to do.
God bless you, and I truly hope you recover from all of this.
2007-07-19 15:26:32 · answer #5 · answered by Butterflies 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all calm down, you didn't do anything wrong. go get a pregnancy test, and tell your parents what happened...I know that this will be very hard but you have to do it or else your cousin might do it again. If they don't believe you go to the police. It is sometimes hard to prove it unless you do it as soon as possible, If you are pregnant then they can run a DNA test. but let someone know!
2007-07-19 15:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont throw away anything that you had on and dont wash it. Put the panties that you wore in a plastic bag and bring it down to the police station. Dont take a bath either, this is where women mess up. Tell someone who you trust and that has a car so they can bring you to the police, better yet, call the police! Don't let this go on. Stop it now!
2007-07-19 15:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by meeda 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Tell your parents
2. Call the police
3. Take a pregnancy test
4. Get counseling. You will need it because of the horrible crime that has been committed against you at no fault of your own.
Please do these things! Don't let this person get away with what has been done. You will not be the only victim. Stop this person from harming others!!!!
2007-07-19 15:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Report this immediately! Go to the doctor so you can have evidence of this rape and have the power to back up your story when it comes time. If you are pregnant, just remember its not the baby's fault and you should never take out your frustration on him/her. Love your baby no matter what!
get as much evidence against your cousin and press the truth out!
2007-07-19 15:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by PRC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to go straight to the police and file a report. They will bring you to the hospital and get you a rape kit. I am so sorry this happened to you, it is a terrible thing.
2007-07-19 17:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by Ayana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the police. I kno they would belive you. If no1 belives you then they can just kiss your butt. I meen if i was you i woudl go to the police or like what i had to do, i went to my best freind and have her mom call the police for me so no1 would kno that i calleed and reported the situation. I am so sorry for you and i was in the same situation that you are in right now. I will prey for you everyday to make sure you get help.
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2007-07-19 15:19:25 · answer #11 · answered by sweetie girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋