in the past two months three of my closest friends are far away...one moved back to japan..one moved to cali and the other is leaving tomorrow to Washington D.C....i feel really bad right now....how do i deal with this change??
2007-07-19 14:58:00 · 15 answers · asked by babybaby1004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Start making changes in your own life.. ppl grow and branch just like a tree but you are always still connected... don't lose touch.. MY BEST FRIEND IN THE WORLD is in Texas and I am in Ohio but we talk EVERY DAY and see each other once a year.. it was hard... but we have our lives and we still have each other... don't let go but live a little too.. change could do you good.
2007-07-19 15:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by mandie_j_lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in contact with them. Even though they are moving it is obvious that you don't want things to go that way. As long as you keep in touch with them after they leave u should b able to cope. Change happens and there is nothing to do about it. Plus you or they could always visit ,and they are only one long distance call away.
2007-07-19 22:06:20 · answer #2 · answered by Khaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in touch with them by phone,E-mail, IM. Make an annual trip to visit them. You just have to think people moved to make their lives for the better. Don't take it personal their just doing what they feel they have to do. It does suck when your friends move on with their lives because of better job opportunities, education or to be closer to family. Just try to keep in touch as much as possible it with feel like they haven't went that far.
2007-07-19 22:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by champain123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly this tells you there are more people to come in the future that would be just as great. Or, maybe it's time for you to take a move yourself and discover something new. Go out more and be more sociable.
2007-07-19 22:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you gotta do to feel better right now. I know it's hard. Vow to yourself that you will do everything you can to stay in touch with these good friends. I'm sure you have other friends...maybe not as close, but they can be if you give it time.
When school starts again, join a club to find people that you have something in common with.
2007-07-19 22:01:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should take it personal. I've never known anyone who bothered me so much I found it necessary to move. Maybe turn my phone off or stop emailing, but moving to another country. I think it's safe to say you are not the reason.
One day you'll be grateful to have friends and resources around the globe.
2007-07-19 22:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by megeelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called growing up we all have bad things happening to us and you have a lot more coming your way.Believe it or not it's things like that that will make you a better person and a stronger person.I know you can't see that now but one day you will look back on everything that has happened to you and you will get it.
2007-07-19 22:06:29 · answer #7 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let go of these peolpe i can kinda relate my bff is in germany shes comin back but shes gonna b gone 4 ova 6 weeks and i miss her so much casue we do everything 2 gether so just find some new friends i mean it wontbe easy and u dnt ave to forget about the old 1s...
2007-07-19 22:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people move on and so should you.. people do grow and get career, life ,make a family or just plain ans simple meet new people. so you sound needy and clingy get a life not trying to sound mean.
2007-07-19 22:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by yellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way to resolve this sort of problems, you must learn to let it go. and move on. Always remeber that u can always conatct them Friendship is an eternal lasting bond...
2007-07-19 22:40:30 · answer #10 · answered by william_anubis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋