Ok my friend is 15 and her boyfriend is 25. I tryed telling her to leave him and find sombody els her age. I tried giving her advise and helping her in each and every way i can. It dosent work and know she wont even talk to me!! She says that im jelous of her and to stop getting in her peronal life. i love her and really care about her. Im scared because her loser boyfreind told her to runaway with hem to mexico BY SUNDAY. she wants me to tell her mom that shes going to my house so she could meet up with her boyfriend. i dont what to but she told me to do it if i really care about her. HELP ME PLEASE!!!
2007-07-19 14:42:15 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your parents, her parents or another trusted adult. If you want to, report it anonymously to the police. The boyfriend is breaking the law. Better your friend never talk to you again then to get into that kind of trouble. Good luck!
2007-07-19 14:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off I think that age difference is to much u kno? I had the same problem it was one of my really good friends she would always come to me for advice,but would never take it. I would get tired of talking to a brick wall. I stuck by her though whenever she needed me I was there. That is what a true friend is for ,and because she is going through such a rough time right now u should be there. Your a comfort to her.Yes indeed it gets on your last nerve to talk to someone who doesnt listen doesnt listen but eventually shell get through all this.We all go through something similar.Now as far as the running away part no shes 15 u need to tell her mother u never know what he might do to her. if something does happen to her u couldnt forgive yourself.See shes gonna be pissed off but she eventually get over it. It will all pay of in the long run for her ,because right now that boy because u cant call him a man messing with a 15 year old. He has her head so far in the sky its crazy so shes not thinking for herself shes thinking for him right now thats allshe knows. Hes making her feel as if shes a woman when the thing is hes taking advantage of her
2007-07-20 00:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Satin Sue. No friend would let her go without telling her mom. So tell her Mother asap!! Report the dude to the police and have him put away! There are laws about older people being "friends" with kids, that puts them in JAIL. It's that serious!! Maybe even the threat of that will get him to leave her alone. Her drawing away from you probably indicates that she is listening to him, and he is controlling her thoughts, and thereby her actions, already. This is a very dangerous place for her that could affect her for years if it is not broken up NOW. So Be A Hero and Go To It!!! And be sure she has NO opportunity to run off with him in the mean time. He may be the type to gain her sympathy if he is persecuted in anyway, and thereby get her to run off. You are a very good friend to be asking about this. Do get adults involved.
2007-07-19 22:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. What this man is doing can be considered illegal in many places. Do not believe your friend when she says you would go along with her if you cared about her. When a person cares about another person, he/she wants what's best for the person regardless of what the person wants. If you truly care for your friend, you'll do what you can to prevent this situation from happening -- there's no way it could turn out good for her.
2007-07-19 22:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shell looking for affaction. Most guys are still sellfish. Tell her that u care and that if he loved her he would have some ball and go for a seriose relationship what kind of guy ask u to run away if that doesn't work look for the story of a minor who ran away with an older man online their usually preety tragic. Finally if that doesn't work tell her mom
2007-07-19 21:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by HelloDarling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her like you claim, you'll tell her mama the truth and whats going on. And the police need to know this. Do this NOW hon, don't wait another sec!!!!!!!!!!!
You want her safe, and its obvious that you have a good head on your shoulders. You've been a good friend, but you have to do this even if she'll hate you!
2007-07-19 22:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by ellen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first this story is really f ed up the dude is obviously a perv who wants nothing with her exept as a sexual toy Tell her something like "if he really loved you he would be happy with you no matter where you are" show her that you really care for her and defenantly tell her parents or the police or something cause that just isn't right
2007-07-19 21:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Tim L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG she should not be telling you to do anything! tell her that if she cared about you and herself that she would listen to reason. maybe you do care about her personal life but you can't do anything about her boyfriend. BUT you dont have to do what she says. TELL her mom that she is planning to run away to mexico. her mom will control her but you cant let her stay at ur house. you could be arrested for assisted kidnapping or sumthing. PLEASE tell her mom. she cant do this to you.
2007-07-19 21:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may lose a friend. but you may be saving her life . by telling her mother or father that is what I would do. if you do not and something happens to your friend you will never forgive your self. pleas do the right thing and let her mom & dad know.
2007-07-19 21:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by george 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents! Cause then now that you know that she may run away and if she does you will feel bad for knowing this info and not saying anything. Her bf can go to jail cause she is jail bait.
2007-07-19 21:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋