I had three daughters who stood up for what they believed, and their actions postitively influenced those around them eventually, so I very much admire you.
I know there is a tremendous amount of pressure on you at your age to conform to a bunch of stuff with which you disagree, but you are doing the right thing by sticking to your beliefs.
I'm not going to lie to you and tell you it will get easier to not follow the crowd because it won't, but you are definitely on the right track. NEVER, EVER compromise your beliefs when it comes to drinking, sex, or anything else, because you are the master of your life. No one can ever take away the pride you have in yourself, your set of standards, or your ability to make your own decisions unless you let them!
I truly wish you well, and wish there were more people - both teenage and adult - who had the courage you exhibit!
:-)
2007-07-19 12:59:41
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answered by Kesokram 4
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South America
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answered by ? 3
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No, don't listen to people like that. They're stupid drinking alcohol and ruining their life. I'd rather green tea or vitamin water, too.
2007-07-19 12:56:39
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answered by I ? Escape The Fate!!! 3
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she is jealous because you are strong enough to do your own thing and not follow the crowd.
apart from being illegal for 14year olds,alcohol is really bad for you. you are putting your health first with drinking green tea and water. be proud cos you are your own person and she is not
I wish other teens could follow your example!
2007-07-19 12:57:10
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answered by scorpio_queen_2003 6
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Prep has nothing to do with alcohol.
People who drink at 14 are trashy haha.
♥ Clare.
2007-07-19 12:54:41
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answered by Anonymous
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You're 14 so you shouldn't care for alcohol. good for you!
2007-07-20 14:45:18
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answered by HRH PrincessFreestarr 3
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Nope. Feel proud. I drink and even I know that it is possible to have fun without alcohol. Stand by your decision even though (to be honest) it will be much harder to do as you get older. (peer pressure and all)
Good luck!
2007-07-19 12:55:57
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answered by Anonymous
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no. You just defend yourself and stand up for yourself. And just to play around with her tell her so what if you're prep [even if you're not]. Don't let her see you mad or put down or whatever. Just bounce right back and you'll be fine. =]
2007-07-19 13:03:22
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answered by everything, ever 4
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She is obvisously a idiot, preps drink too, anyways who cares shes a idiot,tell her you dont care about her oppinion, at least preps arent poor!
hahaha!!!
2007-07-19 12:54:53
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answered by Anonymous
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That's dumb to be 14 and into alcohol. You should ask her just who it is she is trying to impress. and to lose the labels.
Labels are silly.
2007-07-19 12:54:11
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answered by Kiss My Shaz 7
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