k well i dont need to be critised i just need someone out there to help me i didnt start my period yet and i dont know when my last one was but i really need your help i dont know if i am pregnant my stomach is getting bigger but i am not eating anything in between my meals so i dont know if i am pregnant or not please let me know what i should do
2007-07-19 11:38:04 · 12 answers · asked by megan 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
megan, it sounds like you are a little scared. Take the advice of the pregnancy test. If it has been at least 4 weeks since your last flow it should tell you if you are pregnant or not. The bloating could be from pms, or, if its been long enough it could be pregnancy. YOu need to make sure you are eating healthy. If you aren't this could also be a reason for a late period, and if you ARE pregnant, you REALLY need to eat well for your baby.
I hope everything goes the way you hope!
2007-07-19 11:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by doulamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you are so worried. I have a feeling that you are very young, which is why you don't know what to do. I can 'help you' by giving you some 'easy steps' to take.
First ... THINK. Do you know the first day of your last period? Write it down so you don't forget it ... Month, day.
Second ... at any time after one week and before three weeks from that date, did you 'play around' with any male, in such a way that his penis was 'near' your vagina. Did 'milky sticky stuff come out of the end of it? Or did he put his penis into your vagina AT ALL? If so, you COULD BE pregnant. If you haven't done this or been molested and are 'afraid to admit it even to yourself' you are probably NOT pregnant.
What I want you to do is talk to a FEMALE ADULT YOU CAN TRUST. Your mom would be the 'best' but you may fear you'll get into trouble, so you may talk to ANY FEMALE ADULT (over the age of 26, please) you can trust. Show her this answer and tell her that you wrote this question. ASK HER FOR HELP ... you will NEED an adult to 'go through this' with you!
You are going to HAVE TO see an ob/gyn, and you will have to have a 'pelvic exam' ... ask your friend what I mean, if you don't know. If you have 'messed around' with any male, you must be HONEST with the doctor, who will also 'test you' for STDs. Don't worry, that is 'normal' for any girl old enough to have periods. You say that your 'stomach' is getting 'bigger' but that is NOT the 'first sign of pregnancy.' The doctor will ask you some questions about your 'other symptoms. ANSWER HONESTLY ... the doctor is YOUR doctor and CAN NOT TELL EVEN YOUR PARENTS about anything you tell him in 'privacy' ... but, if you HAVE BEEN MOLESTED your doctor will HAVE to call the Child Protective Agency and the Police so the person who molested you can be arrested and put on trial. DO NOT WORRY, because if you have been molested it is not YOU who will be 'in trouble' ... it's the man, and he needs to be tried and 'punished' for what he did to you. If it was a 'boy your age' NOTHING can be done, and you are NOT REQUIRED BY LAW to tell ANYONE ... even your parents ... his name, unless you decide you really want to.
Second, you may have to go through a 'thorough physical examination' because pregnancy is only one of many different things that could cause your 'belly' to get bigger. Answer EVERY QUESTION HONESTLY ... the doctor only wants to help you and treat any possible disease/illness you have. Hang in there, dear ... I know it's going to be 'scary' for awhile ... but in six weeks all of this will be 'over' ... if you are pregnant, make your OWN DECISION about what YOU WANT TO DO. You may 'ask' for advice, or you may have it 'shoved at you' but the FINAL DECISION IS YOURS. I hope you make the RIGHT DECISION, for both you and the 'potential baby' ... and I will be PRAYING FOR YOU to make it through this and come out 'fine' ... SIX WEEKS and all this 'fear' will be OVER ... maybe you are pregnant, and maybe you aren't ... but you have taken a very MATURE first step by posting your question here, so I know that you are mature enough to deal with anything yet to come.
2007-07-19 19:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a home pregnancy test, better yet go get a blood test (it will detect a pregnancy earlier). Sometimes if you're stressed or worried that you're pregnant you won't start your period. You could just be getting the bloating that comes with your period.
If you're pregnant you may feel: a little naseous, increased appetite, need to pee a lot, fullness feeling in abdomen, or sore/tender breasts.
2007-07-19 18:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by azure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all just at least take a guess on when youlast had your period. then go buy a pregnancy test. take on once a week for a few weeks if they all come out negative then your not pregnant. if you dont want to get pregnantj then either stop having sex or get on some sort of birth control. You should be able to get the pill from planned parenthood
2007-07-19 18:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by ♥countrygal♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go buy a pregnancy test. Walmart has them for like 6$. Even the dollar store has them. If you are not pregnant, maybe you are bloated. maybe you need to see a doctor. Your belly should not be getting big before 3-4 months of pregnancy..
2007-07-19 18:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by crystal@simplythebestcandles.biz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you go to a clinic, alot have free pregnancy tests. Go immediately! or buy an over the counter. You didn't mention your age. But if you are under 18, I suggest you letting your mom know what you think is going on. She will be there and support you. If you have had different partners, try to remember who and when...
2007-07-19 18:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a home pregnancy test.If you are pregnant someone is going to find out sooner or later.Learn from your mistakes and do not repeat them.
2007-07-19 18:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Go to the drugstore and get a PG test. a EPT then you will know
2007-07-19 18:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pengy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Take a HPT.
or go to the doctor.
2007-07-19 18:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ept home pregnancy test
2007-07-19 18:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by My Hubby Rob&Son Dakota Robert 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋