I'm a shy person, I imagine myself, having lots of friends, I always imagine myself, as outgoing, popular, having people playing video games and watching anime with, How do i make this come to live.
2007-07-19 11:33:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Drink alcohol. =)
2007-07-19 11:39:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ro¥al Tree® 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
start with a comfortable friend or a cousin. hang out with this comfort. While your having fun your building character and confidence. Then allow your comfort zone to open up and let one (only one)of their friends join you two. If things work well, you will have a new addition to the group. Now 2 becomes 3 and in no time you will have a group of friends.
2007-07-27 14:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by paris h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its kind of like going into the ocean. u cant take lil steps in, u have 2 just dive in. just start doing it one day, u will start off slow and u will make some mistakes along the way but thats the way ull get comfortable being an outgoing person. the hardest part is the begining then after that it'll get alot easier.
2007-07-19 18:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Watch the Secret, its all about imagining yourself where you want to be in order to get there. You're already doing a good job of that as long as you stay positive.
2007-07-26 18:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Miss 6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you do, is stop thinking first of yourself. In order attract people to you, they must sense that you are interested in them. So make an effort to ask people questions about themselves. For example, if you meet another girl, you might say "I like your hair." Or "I like your dress." Or pay them a compliment in some other way.
Ask them what they like to do in their spare time. What kinds of video games do they like to play or what books do they like.
If you show that you are interested in other people, they will like to be with you and soon you will not have to imagine yourself having lots of friends. You WILL have lots of friends!
2007-07-19 18:39:41 · answer #5 · answered by questionmark 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to more people. Even if you mess up and say the wrong thing, people will forget in a few days anyway. There's no reason not to take risks when life is too short ;)
2007-07-19 18:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by whoop! 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look around and notice the people that seem to want to be your friend. Then get to know them slowly, so you don't get overwhelmed. You will see that the people you let know you and who you get to know are probably a lot like you inside. I think you will enjoy coming out of your shell if you just do it gently.
2007-07-24 05:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by ddjbear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by faking it. Don't think about what the next person may think. Eventually you'll get the hang of it and before you know it- you're not shy anymore. It's a start. good luck.
2007-07-19 18:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by magikal01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very serious about this, take acting classes and act out your imagination as a character other than yourself..
2007-07-25 13:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 cups grey goose vodka, 3/4 cup triple sec a splash of mango juice and a dash of cran wit crushed ice....
AND BOOM!!!
2007-07-19 18:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Kai 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋