I now this guy, I use to pick on him and tease him. He really liked me so he would blow it off. We when out a couple of times but it would always end fast, we would fight just to fight.I haden't talked to him in about 6 months, we got talking did the break up thing once more, then he said he loved me and wants to marry me, we have been together for almost 2 months but have known each other for 6 years. We are still in High school and he wants to ask me to marry him next year. I still think I am to young, I am 18. Would Marrying him be a back thing????
2007-07-19 11:27:28 · 14 answers · asked by katlovez89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have told him i think i am too young and we should wait, how do i get him to understand???
2007-07-19 11:59:04 · update #1
Marrying at that age is usually a bad thing. Not always but usually. And with your guys history I would recommend that you date eachother alot longer before you make a commitment like marraige. Marraige is a serious thing not something that should be done unless your completely sure. If your serious about him date exclusively for a couple years if your still in love and wanting to get married then thats fine.
2007-07-19 11:36:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yer 18!
Forget marriage for at least 10 years!
If he's for you he'll be there for you in those 10 years. After the 10 decide whether living together is economically good and expansion is welcomed. What is important is to stay focussed on yer friendship and how to enhance this feeling - though believe that feeling can and will change with time. So look deeper into the lines along those areas as unknowns. Don't be shy of it - if you both want and get - then think about house, car, job, family, incomes, holiday and betterment of all of these in unison...
2007-07-19 18:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by upyerjumper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be a bad thing because you are still young. Come on think about it you are 18 and out of HS, all you want to do is party and take a break for 6 months to a year and then look into your goals. Not to be tied down!
2007-07-19 18:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by misslilprincess33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way too young to get married. You should wait a couple years to see if you two are still together, and wait until you're both older. Besides, you should enjoy life and get started on getting a job and going to college and experiencing all that before you even think about settling down and starting a family.
2007-07-19 18:33:07 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that...it didn't work out. I think it's great that you have a friendship, too. What about college? Do you guys have plans for after high school? That is usually a great growing time for the both of you ....you'd have time to see if that's something that you both really want. If you make it through that time, then you have a better chance of knowing it's the real deal.
2007-07-19 18:32:23 · answer #5 · answered by T W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, i don't know either of you, but i don't think anybody should get married unless they have been dating more than a year.
2 years is even better. I know everybody tells you this, but you can't imagine how different you will be in just 4 or 5 years.
2007-07-19 18:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the poster child for getting married too fast. I married a guy I knew for 3 weeks! Major mistake, I divorced him only after a month. Don't waste your time, thats too quick.
2007-07-19 18:32:00 · answer #7 · answered by gingerb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know about a "back thing"...but you are way too young to be married. You need time to mature. You both do.
2007-07-19 18:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that your to young for marriage,than you are to young for marriage.Whats your hurry ,you have the rest of your life to find a husband and settle down into a totally boring mundane ,senseless existence.
2007-07-19 18:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. By the time that next year roles around, you two will have fought again and he will have changed his mind anyway.
2007-07-19 18:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋